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    Mar 9, 2011, 12:16 PM
    Girl Goes From Nuts About Me to Ignoring Me in 24 Hours?
    Met a 25-year old girl last month and hit it off pretty early. During our first date we wound up kissing and she seemed really into me. Went back to my place and messed around a bit. She wanted to meet again that Friday, sent me a text on Thursday morning telling me to "get plenty of sleep because you're not getting any rest Friday!"

    After sex she asked if she was ever going to see me again. I talked to her a bit after that, then the messages just stopped and after two days of no replies I just moved on. A few days later I got a text asking why we don't talk and I told her she stopped replying, I stopped trying. She said she switched up her phone and nothing carried over. She and I met up again that week. Every time I saw her she talked about how much she liked me.

    During last week we texted and she had been trying to get me to come over for dinner. Thursday I asked when she'd like to meet and she said, "This weekend?" Since Thursday night I've not gotten a reply, phone call, or anything. I've only sent two texts, one asking if Friday was good and another saying hello.

    Opinions? Ideas how I should play this?
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    Mar 9, 2011, 05:13 PM
    Yes, you should definitely move on.. something's wrong with that girl. Talk about how she likes you to doing a 180 and doing no contact.

    Over a very short period.
    Only date people who actually shows and interest in you.
    I'm thinking you might be the fall on guy, like if there's somebody she likes but can't get or maybe an ex?
    I could be very wrong, but my advice is solid - move on!
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    Mar 9, 2011, 08:28 PM

    Don't get so excited over the ways of a stranger you don't know very well, but have had a great time with. Relax and keep doing your thing, and see what happens, or what excuse she comes up with. Then decide if her fun is worth it or not.

    A month is to soon to even be worried about what she has up, or to be in so deep you can't get out.
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    Mar 10, 2011, 11:36 AM
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    I'm just ignoring right now. She was contacting me every day and then suddenly stopped replying to me. Trying to wrap my head around her thinking I'm "the perfect guy for her" to stone silence.

    I see no point in trying to contact her any more. It's been a week and she hasn't replied. I gave it my all and now I'll just deal with it.
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    Mar 10, 2011, 12:38 PM

    Or better yet, find someone else that's better to deal with.
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    Mar 10, 2011, 01:31 PM

    Too much confusion over texts. Just CALL!!
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    Mar 13, 2011, 02:43 AM
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    Called. No response. No call back.

    She's ignoring me out of nowhere.
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    Mar 13, 2011, 03:52 AM

    Then chalk it up to experience,her loss.
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