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    Jul 23, 2014, 08:32 AM
    Was she flirting with me?
    I work at a grocery store and sometimes I'm on the check stand. Given the type of environment I work in, I'm nice to everyone and ask them how their day is. Yesterday I was on the check stand and a pretty girl with dark black hair and black glasses to match come though. I give her the "hello how are you today." She answers "great. How about you". I tell her "pretty good." Now this is where the conversation gets interesting for her next are "just pretty good. Nothing exciting has happened." Smiling as she talks. At this point I wondering what her game was but played it safe by assuming she was just a outgoing person and gave her a simple answer of "nothing exciting but nothing bad either." What was in my head was "nothing exciting till you arrived." I comment the bag of fun sized candy and jokingly ask if I can have one. We continue to talk for a short while more including her plans to bribe her nephew with the candy she bought. Before she leaves she holds up the bag of candy and ask if I really wanted one. I thank her but decline the candy and wish her a nice day. Was she just an out going person as I assumed or was she flirting with me.
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    Jul 23, 2014, 09:01 AM
    Just an outgoing person!
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    Jul 23, 2014, 09:39 AM
    Sounds like and outgoing friendly person.
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    Jul 23, 2014, 09:48 AM
    Why assume since you know nothing about her. She was friendly so leave it at that.
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    Jul 23, 2014, 02:31 PM
    Should I have made the moves on her by saying what I was thinking or would it have came off too strong.
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    Jul 23, 2014, 02:40 PM
    You don't make the moves on a customer while you're working. That is tacky and I'd fire you if you were working for me.

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