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    Bobbi6185 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 4, 2010, 10:07 AM
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    I am so lost someone help me. I have been dating this guy for 3 years and all he does is use me and I don't understand why I let it keep happening. The first 6 months of our relationship was the greatest time of my life I fell head over heals in love with him. Then things got messed up. He started doing pills and got really bad. My mom had put her money in my safe $1400.00 I was suppost to put it in the bank but before I did he faked a robbery and had me call the cops and lead me to believe that it was my baby daddy. Anyway that's just one of the things he has done recently he faked another break in and my Wii was gone. He has worked in 2 1/2 years. I don't understand why I'm holding on my whole family has disowned me
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    Apr 5, 2010, 12:26 AM

    Wow yeah get out of that. Seems like you are one of the meny cases of women that find their attention whereve they can get it even if it is negative. You need to get out of that situation and get some self worth. See a therapist and make your life better. Reconnect with your family and stay away from the pill popping loser.
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    Apr 5, 2010, 12:33 AM

    What will it take for you to finally realize that this is it, he's not going to change?

    You either leave, move on, find the strength in yourself to be responsible for your own well being, or, you stay and accept that this is it, this is as good as it's going to get, in fact, it will most likely get worse.

    What's the final straw? Does he have to burn down the house to collect the insurance? Will that be the day you say "enough"?
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    Apr 6, 2010, 04:37 AM

    You have a child.
    Do you want your child to grow up around a druggie thief?

    Please find the strength to leave him and get a normal life back.
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    Apr 6, 2010, 06:31 AM
    Simple: STOP being with him so that he can stop using you.

    Get your intergrity and self-esteem back.
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    Apr 6, 2010, 08:03 AM

    Do you need glasses to read the handwriting on the wall? Thieves and liars make lousy partners, get as far from him as you can, and talk to the cops. He is a menace to society, and he has targeted you. Jail is the only place for him.
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