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    Jul 12, 2011, 04:26 AM
    Relationship problems
    Hi I have got myself into abit of a mess and would like some advise. I'm 30 and have been with my girlfriend for 6 years and was due to get married in 8 weeks. But when I'm at work I started speaking to a girl prob about 8 months ago ( on the phone ) and we get on REALLY well. I made the mistake of meeting her, because I now have feelings for her, she likes me 2. she also has a boyfriend and she knowes about my girlfriend but as things started to get serious she has stopped everything because she didn't want people getting hurt. I know she would rather be with me than her boyfriend, he doesn't make her happy, she just don't want to hurt him. But my feelings for this other girl are stronger than I have ever had with anyone else. What should I do?

    I have canceled my wedding now but I'm still with my girlfriend but I'm unhappy all I think about is the other girl and really don't know what to do, my girlfriend does not know about the other girl, very messy
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    Jul 12, 2011, 07:01 AM

    If this girl was really that miserable and wanted to be with you she would have left or will leave her boy friend.
    You two decided to play with fire now there are burns. You need to man up and leave your girl friend alone. You are not being fair or honest with her.
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    Jul 12, 2011, 11:21 AM
    If I were you, I will definitely get out from that mess you already got yourself in. Don't hurt your girlfriend and yourself by staying with her when you no longer love her. You are hurting by giving her hope that the wedding will happen some time. You are also hurting yourself by not being with the other girl you have stronger feelings for. You been dating your girlfriend for 6 years and I do think she deserves the right to know that you started having feeling for another girl and that's the reason why you cancel the wedding. I'll just get out this mess be honest with your girlfriend.
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