There is this guy I like, and he sits next to me in english, and is in my extra help class. I think he used to like me and I really like him. He is going out with this other girl, and he seems to still like me, but I'm not actually sure. Can you give me some help?

Wait until he gets rid of the other girl otherwise your interfering with someone else's relationship.

Yeah don't go messing around with other peoples men. You may think he likes you but your vision may be impaired because of your feelings toward him..

Just wait and if it is meant to be then it will happen. Until then just enjoy your life and work hard at school.

Be the fun girl and smile a lot and I'm sure he will be attracted to you, and if not him, someone even better!

Well I honestly don't want to go out with him, I just like him and would like to be his friend and see where it goes from there. Do you have any help on that? Like, he has a lot of friends who are girls, and he is used to that. I just want to know what are some good conversation starters, and to get to know him more, but not to go out with him, and to not really flirt

Okay so you're saying that you "really don't want to go out with him but you want to see where it goes from there." Then being friends is it! You wouldn't like it if some girl was checking your man out and wanted to pursue things with him if only he made a move. Play it safe, talk to him whenever you have the chance, look your best! See what happens then but don't go breaking people up! When the time is right, things might happen for you too!

Yea but my main problem is how to do it. I'm a very shy person, and I'm not that social like my friend. I don't know what to do every time I'm alone with him. He seems shy also. How do I like loosen up and start a conversation? Please help me!! Thanks for the advise so far!!

Start chatting through AIM or e-mail. When you're at school, just ask how his day is going and what his plans are for the weekend. Talk to him like you would any other friend.

Exactly, pretend he's a friend and not some guy.

I don't really know him that well and I don't feel comfortable about giving him my screen name. We just have little conversations and don't talk about it again. I remember on Halloween I was a baby, and I had a teddybear prop. He took it off my desk, gave it back, and smiled. And before and after that, in class he would look at me non stop. I could see it in the corner of my eye. He still looks at me but not as much. Now that it is January, and 4 months later, I don't think he is that interested as he used to be. I mean he may still likes me, because maybe he has a little idea that I like him. When we're alone together we have a different coversation every time. Do I just go up to him and say hi? I might be a little to shy. Last time we were alone I could tell he was trying to showoff a little. He likes to write on the white board, and always looks at me when he is ''trying'' to be funny, or has a funny voice. Does that mean he wants to be my friend? When he was on my volliball team in gym, does that mean he wants to talk to me, or try to have an excuse to talk to me? Am I thinking too much? I really need help. Thanks for the tip though!! I'm patheticly desperate!!