Hi, my boyfriend and I have lived together 3 years (we are both 45). He drives me crazy with noise - everything is noisy. He chews with his mouth open, crunches ice, slams the cupboard doors. Last night he blew up at me when I said something to him and said it's my problem that these things bother me. He is typically a very patient guy so I'm getting under his skin -- but he's getting under mine. How do I resolve this issue. He's not going to change, and I can't take the noise. Other than this we get along really great. TIA