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indian_guy · Jan 11, 2009, 06:25 PM

I like a girl a lot. She has been friends with me from the last 2 years. She had even once asked me as to whether I can become her boy friend. But at that I didn't want to take it the next level. We had even got physical 2 to 3 times.

Even now we are good friends. But she says there is another guy who likes her and she is close with that person. She is saying that he is trying to give a name to their relationship. But she still talks to me. She wants to talk to me more and more and she wants to spend time with me. She has said that many a times. For any help she comes to me. But she is also showing more interest now in the other guy. She is initially used to talk about him a lot but now when she has come to know that I am not comfortable when she does that she is not talking about him in front of me but in the backdrop I am aware that she keeps talking to her.

I like her a lot and now I am feeling hurt. But now I feel that she is going away from me.
I love her a lot and when she is not there I miss her. But I feel that now she is not interested in me any more. Please help I am feeling hurt.

jjwoodhull · Jan 11, 2009, 08:48 PM

Do you truly like her now? Or are you just jealous of her attention to another guy? If you truly like her, then ask her out. You already know that she has feelings for you. But if you only want her because you feel you can't have her, then let her go so that she can be happy.

IamHidden · Jan 11, 2009, 08:56 PM

Just ask her how she feels about her and ask her out.
This is coming from a girl! And I would want a guy to do this for me.. if we had that type of a connection! Just try it you'll never no until you try...

IamHidden · Jan 11, 2009, 08:56 PM

MY BAD ask her how she feels about you not her... lol sorry

indian_guy · Jan 12, 2009, 07:58 AM

Originally Posted by jjwoodhull

Do you truly like her now? Or are you just jealous of her attention to another guy? If you truly like her, then ask her out. You already know that she has feelings for you. But if you only want her because you feel you can't have her, then let her go so that she can be happy.

I like her a lot and just want to be with her. She also knows this and she also has told me many times that she just wants to be with me and wants to talk with me. I have asked her out and she does come out with me without any issues.

indian_guy · Jan 12, 2009, 08:00 AM

Originally Posted by IamHidden

Just ask her how she feels about her and ask her out.
This is coming from a girl! And I would want a guy to do this for me..if we had that type of a connection! just try it youll never no until you try...

She feels good and nice about me. She wants to be with me for most of the time. I have asked her many a times out. And she's does come.

jjwoodhull · Jan 12, 2009, 08:38 AM

Then you need to tell her that you want her to be your girlfriend. Remember, you have already rejected her once, so she is probably not going to make the first move again.

indian_guy · Jan 12, 2009, 08:42 AM

Originally Posted by jjwoodhull

Then you need to tell her that you want her to be your girlfriend. Remember, you have already rejected her once, so she is probably not going to make the first move again.

I think I do agree with you here as she many times asked me during our talk when I was silent as to whether I want to tell anything. She said you don't tell anything.

greenjeans840 · Jun 19, 2010, 04:25 AM

Open up to her tell her your feelings. I mean deep feelings. I think she's ready but she thinks your hiding something. Thus closing yourself out of the relationship. My girlfriend broke up with me for the same reasons. I was unsure of myself now I regret it.