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    ineedurhelp Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 14, 2009, 04:33 PM
    I like a lot this girl who has a boyfriend
    Hello! I met this girl at faculty. Liked her from the first day.somehow I got to talk to her and finally we went out.I didn't try anything because the next day I had to leave for 3 weeks. But she told me that 2 months ago she broke up after a 1 year relationship cause he cheated on her. When I came back, I asked her if she wants 2 go out but she said that she Kind of made up with him.what shall I do? She didn't go out with me cause she said that it wouldn't be fair for her boyfriend.What shall I do? Everyone wants such a loyal girl. Help me.don't tell me to forget about it.and also I know I shouldn't try to break them up cause then I won't trust her.
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    Jan 14, 2009, 04:36 PM

    Why shouldn't we tell you to back off? It's the right thing to do. Would you like a guy trying to break you up with your girlfriend?

    There's nothing you can do. Let her know you're still interested and then leave it at that. Don't pressure her or anything. Don't tempt her. Be responsible and make the right decision.
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    Jan 14, 2009, 04:50 PM

    I'm trying to be as responsible as I can.but I like her very much.the right question is: if you break up after a 1 year relation and you make up after 2 months,what are the odds the relationship will still work?
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    Jan 14, 2009, 04:59 PM

    Move on.

    No one likes a home wrecker.
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    Jan 14, 2009, 05:37 PM

    Stay away, if she wants to be with this guy who cheated, then that's her decision and you must respect that.

    I have a strict rule about this, I stay away. I have had one guy go down the path you seem to be heading and let me tell you, he met my fist very quickly.
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    Jan 14, 2009, 06:02 PM

    Talaniman Rule- never get involved with someone when their ex is still in the picture

    Forget her. Move forward with your life. She has someone and it's a waste of time to wait for them to break up, especially when she has told you to your face, no dates.
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    Jan 14, 2009, 07:11 PM
    Well I stole my ex from her boyfriend... and then guess what, she someone stole her from me. I'm now 100% convinced that she never ends a relationshp until she has found another partner. So I'm now forever stayng away from girls with bfriends
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    Jan 14, 2009, 07:25 PM

    If a girl is taken, she is not available. Period. It's that simple.
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    Jan 14, 2009, 07:46 PM
    The odds of their relationship not working is none of your business! A lot of relationships get better the second time around. Move on bro.
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    Jan 14, 2009, 09:17 PM

    Just stay away from her.imagine like she is your girlfriend and a guy is trying to take her from you.wouldnt you get mad? Its not fair to steal.
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    Jan 15, 2009, 06:08 AM

    She is a human with free will, and can choose who she pleases. Why be mad at him, when she made the choice. Let it go, and move on, and stop wasting time dwelling on what you think you have lost.

    Evidently she was not yours to lose, as a few dates does not equal a future. Get past this.
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