About a year and a half ago I started chatting to this girl on myspace, she looked pretty hot and we spoke practically everyday and exchanged numbers etc. turned out she was starting at the same college as me and we met up in college a few times and really clicked, but I only got the odd hug and usually had to ask for them! Then she stopped replying to my texts so I thought she wasn't interested! I then got with another girl (but never stopped liking the first girl) and we dated for 10 months and have been split up for 2months now. Ive started texting the original girl again, getting the odd reply but still not to every text. Then I got drunk with my mates one night and she was out with us, I stayed round at hers alone, just me and her in the house but didn't make a move! Then a few days later I had a party, my ex was there and so was she! They had an argument and the original girl found out I like and have always liked her, about an hour later she got off with me and we continued to throughout the night! I knew she had a boyfriend though and stopped and said we shouldn't do this you have a boyfriend, she then explained to me how he doesn't satisfy her and there relationship is coming to an end, bonus I thought, then she told me she liked me as well, even better! We slept in the same bed that night but didn't do anything sexual! Then a few days later back at college she says to me why have you been telling people we kissed, if my boyfriend finds out I'm in so much !

So I'm thinking now, was I just a drunken kiss and all that stuff a lie or is she just worried she will look like a slag if people find out she got off with me whilst going out with him? I'm so confused and would like some advice! I would talk to her but I hardly ever see her in person and I don't think myspace is the right place really!

Any advice is much much appreciated!

It wasn't right for her to lead you on especially when the relationship with her said boyfriend wasn't over. So as far as you and this girl, (coming from a girl's point of view) I think she's scandalous and you should move on, because if she'll cheat on her boyfriend now, chances are she'd cheat on you too. Count your losses and find a nice girl that won't play games with you.

Yeah but the thing is, this girl is absolutely stunning! And is honestly one of the nicest people you will ever meet so I really don't think she would use me, but then again I've been majorly wrong about people before so she could just be using me I guess! God its all so complicated...

I'm sure she's gorgeous, otherwise you wouldn't like her, and she may be nice, but look at how she treated you before the party, and after. She quit talking to you with no reason, wouldn't answer your texts, then all of a sudden you're hanging out, having fun and doing things, and she still has a boyfriend. They haven't broke up yet and you're not supposed to say anything to anybody. She's not being fair to you.

That's very true, do you recommend I totally forget about this girl then? Or wait until she's single to make any more moves? Because I can't get her out of my head!

I definitely recommend that you move on. She sounds like she'll just break your heart. There are a million girls out there that just want to find a nice guy, so try to find one of them, I'm sure you can find someone just as stunning that will appreciate you more.

OK ill give it a go, but knowing me ill still be stuck on this girl three months down the line lol thanks for all your help :D