:( I started playing poker on this internet site and just for a laugh I made a fales name and pic, but after a few days of playing I started talking to this guy and before I knew it I was making a new msn address for use to talk you should also no that I am single and 42. Every night ARE chats got a lot deeper and before I could come clean with this guy I was in LOVE with his personality and found it more and more difficult to tell him the truth he has spoken to me about visiting and also marriage I just fill awfull and a bit of a that I have done this to myself and him... my lie is I am 22 and blound hair but in real life I am the total oppisit I'm not normally like this I just don't no what to do can you help

Tell the truth... better now than later eh?

I will also add:

The guy hasn't even met you and already talking about marriage?
Hum... that would throw up a red flag for me. Id come clean and let this guy go his merry way.

Honesty is the best policy!

You have two choices, pretend your role and never meet and just have fun on line not wanting any serious relationshiop.

1. beware of internet nuts, I meet my wife online. On a game site, just playing games and starting chating on the side.

But I also dated for a long time and meet several ladies on the net
( and I am sure a few thought I was the nutcase I guess)
But I meet a witch who said she put a spell on me to make me hers forever, I meet one with well lest say strange desires I am sure a lot of men would have loved to meet her. I meet a lady who wanted to date as long as her girlfiend could come along some times. I meet one lady who after a few real dates, had my entire carrer and life planned ( now she really had a lot of connections and could have done that for me)

And a school teacher who never called me back, guess I made her strange list.

This person could be someone else also, many married men pretend to be single online also to sleep around.

But you tell him the truth, and see what happens, honestly if he likes the person he came to know and chat with, a differnet name or age won't matter. If it does matter, then he was not looking for a relationshiop but more a fun experience.

I would just ditch the guy... never talk to him again.
He'll never know