
Originally Posted by
meccah
im pregnant with my exs child and im not too sure what to do about us frm now on.the reason he is my ex is because he cheated on me repeatedly and i ended the reationship after 3 years. i still love him and he still loves me but im still angry and still hurting. do i forgive him n get back with him? i cudnt bare to see him with anyone else. or should i let him be apart of our childs life but not in a relationship as i know he is going to be a great dad but i can't trust him not 2 hurt me again? pplz help
1-How old are you?
2- Just because you have a baby with him doesn't mean you forgive and forget and give it another shot. You two NEED to work things out BEFORE even thinking of getting back together.
3- Do you BOTH want to get back together and work things out or do you just want to get back together because of the baby? I'm telling you now, babies magnify your problems. If you don't "fix" your issues you'll find yourself in the same position.
4- Have you considered counseling? It may be the best option so you both can get things straight. This doesn't mean you'll be together--- you can be GREAT parents without being together.
What has he said OR done to make you think that he'll change and leave his cheating ways?
If it's nothing or he says "baby I'll change" but is banging a few other girls than his words don't mean squat. A man that wants to change and start to work on his family DOES so. He stops his games, gets a job and WORKS for what he has broken.