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    Simple Asian Posts: 302, Reputation: 13
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    Jan 3, 2008, 02:16 AM
    If you wonder if you want to be a nice guy anymore or you think nice guy finish last
    YOU SHOULD Definitely CHECK THIS OUT BEFORE YOU MAKING ANY DECISION... IT SO TRUE ABOUT EVERY AREAS OF A NICE GUY SITUATION AND HOW THEY FEEL ANYTHING EVERYTHING... DO NICE GUYS REALLY FINISHED LAST ? WHAT SHOULD NICE GUYS DO ?

    Movie name : Just A Nice Guy


    Part 1 : YouTube - Just A Nice Guy - Part 1 - Wong Fu Productions...

    Part 2 : YouTube - Just A Nice Guy - Part 2 - Wong Fu Productions...

    Part 3 : YouTube - Just A Nice Guy - Part 3 - Wong Fu Productions

    P.S: any comment.. disscussed and everything is welcome
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    Jan 3, 2008, 05:59 AM
    All right I guess now Simple Asian you get the concept, I think the video is true, if guys opened up a lot of friends could've become more, because it is natural for the girl to be shy about expressing she likes you (more than guys, I mean the persentage) Let me be honest, surely there are cases the girl doesn't feel the same way, but think about it, if you didn't tell this girl you liked her, wouldn't you have spent the rest of you life wishing and wondering what could've happened if you did? You need courage, determination, honesty, and you need to take a risk. Luck has to do with it, but its not a big part of it. And I think Amy's friend is so right because the Nice Guys are treating the girl they like the same way they treat other girls and the nice guy is hiding his emotions inside, how can the girl know how the guy feels if he doesn't give her a hint? The best way is to be honest, to tell her you don't want to ruin what you have but can't help wish for more. One important thing, if you become a jerk (btw, I'm not talking about you I'm talking in general), maybe you will get girls, but you will only get the jerk-y girls. Because nice girls are also waiting for the nice and right guy to come to them. Don't stoop low, stay high, eventually you will shine.
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    Jan 3, 2008, 04:29 PM
    OK... hi again!
    awww I love this video it touched me. OK anyway, mm I don think you should change who you are. Its true that girls always like the popular guy because more girls like him and it does make him more attractive and I never looked at it that way but its true. But some popular guys are nice guys and you should probably look at it that way. =]]
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    Jan 6, 2008, 05:12 AM
    I'm a nice guy, I used to have a girl once and she dump me after 5 years now I'm just like whatever. BTW nice girls are really easy to find, most of my friends are nice girl. I bet most of your friends are nice girl too. Ah the irony. We should get together and meet each other friends. LOl, because none of my nice girlfriends like me in that way maybe your nice girlfriend will.( it a joke but it also true)
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    Jan 6, 2008, 01:37 PM
    Those clips are so true!. It's funny because me and my girl friends have been talking a LOT lately about "killing the nice guy" --and by "killing", we mean causing him to become a jerk--
    My two friends and I have all been in a situation where one of our good guy friends ends up having feelings, and it's a hard situation for both the girl and the guy!.
    It definitely sucks for the guy because there is nothing wrong with him, so, of course, he can't figure out what to do! He's already being the type of guy that every woman wants -funny, sensitive, sweet , a good listener, etc.- however the girl just doesn't like him in that way!
    It's hard for the girl because she knows he is a great guy and even though she tells herself over and over how much she needs a guy like him, she just doesn't have feel the same way.. . And this is one thing I think the nice guys don't realize. Most of the time when it doesn't work out, the girl really does want to have feelings for him SO bad! It's just, the guy has been in the friend stage for so long, its hard to stop thinking of him as anything other than friends.
    ... One thing all 3 of us have noticed is that at one time or another(before the guy admitted his feelings) we have either thought about dating them or have liked them... and this is where that one clip about the guy treating all of his girl friends the same becomes true. How is the girl supposed to know he thinks of her as special or anyone different if he treats all the girls the same?

    I think if a nice guy likes a girl he should really just focus on showing her he actually cares about her.. not just through words, but also through his actions! :)
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    Jan 6, 2008, 02:13 PM
    well... now I no that... NIce guys for life.. hell Nice guy is the best thing in the world... we are hell we are... hahaha NG for life...

    and NIce guys won the race in the end ^^
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    May 4, 2010, 01:51 PM

    My friends think I'm kind of different because I'm like that... some don't take me seriously and one of my oldest friends doesn't even listen to me anymore. I've noticed that lots of other guys see the social environment like a dog eat dog world that requires alpha males... they show off and want attention and I just let them have it, such a petty and weak thing to strive for if you ask me- they probably have low self esteem

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