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    smitttyx2 Posts: 37, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 2, 2008, 01:37 PM
    Huge dilema
    OK so there was this girl I like right and well I asked her out and here's where it gets interesting. A guy I know likes her asked her to go to homecoming with him.she said yes but she told him just as friends. She kept hearing that he wanted to go out with her and she insisted she only was a friend to him. I thought this meant they weren't going so when I asked her out she said after homecoming(not specifying whether to ask again or yes after homecoming) because she didn't want to hurt his feelings. Please someone help me sort this mess out:confused:
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    Nov 2, 2008, 01:39 PM

    Sounds like she wants you to ask her out again after homecoming.

    If she's only going with this guy as friends, then she may be attracted to you. I would ask again after homecoming.
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    Nov 2, 2008, 01:47 PM

    I believe that the fact she didn't flat out no me means something anybody have an opinion on that?
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    Nov 2, 2008, 01:49 PM

    Did you ask her out before he did?
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    Nov 2, 2008, 01:53 PM

    No he said will you go to homecoming like 2-3 weeks ago she said just as friends so I thought it was OK and he didn't ask her out he just asked her to homecoming
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    Nov 2, 2008, 01:57 PM
    That's his version of asking her out. She was too nice to say "No, I don't like you in that way." so she conceded by going as his friend. It means she likes him AS A FRIEND and nothing more.

    The fact that she did not say no to you means that she probably likes you and didn't want the reputation of being the girl who's seen in different situations with different guys. Wait until after homecoming and ask her out again.
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    Nov 2, 2008, 01:58 PM

    Then if she told you after homecoming I think she does like You and just honestly doesn't want to hurt this guys feelings by being with you and going with him to homecoming. So she will go with him to homecoming and after you can ask her out. I think its just timing
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    Nov 2, 2008, 02:00 PM

    Yes u guys have been a big help I thought the same thing everything was right but the timing
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    Nov 2, 2008, 07:51 PM

    I agree that it sounds like she wants you to wait until after homecoming and then ask her again. She could either want to see where things go with this guy or she could just as she said just want to take one thing at a time and not complicate things.
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