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johncolly4 · Jan 2, 2010, 08:57 PM

I really like a girl in my school. I've known her for 2 years and I think she may like me. However one of her friends show a particular dislike towards me. She sent me a card saying "love from" and I really want to go out with her but she hasn't said she fancies me. What should I do?

sabrewolfe · Jan 2, 2010, 09:02 PM

Make the first move, ask her out on a date. The worst that can happen is that she could say no. Either way, you have your answer.

JBeaucaire · Jan 3, 2010, 12:45 AM

You seem to speak fluent English, so I'll assume she does, too. Hehe... at least that won't be a problem.

Joking aside, is it safe to say what you're really after is some way of getting up the nerve to do what you already know you have to do, right?

You cannot avoid the awkwardness of telling someone you're interested in them for the first time. It goes with the territory.

Everything worth doing in life that is scary at first really does get easier with practice. There is no substitute for just pushing your way through the first few until you come up with some approaches of your own that are comfortable for you.

My suggestion is to not let it BE a big deal. Have a plan in mind for what you'd like to do... concert, movie, dinner, dance... then strike up a conversation with her about normal things... just bring it up.

"I'm going to see that new Avatar movie at the midnight showing on Thursday...would you be interested in going with me?"

A line that worked for me (on many girls, not my wife):
Me: "Hey, when are you going to ask me out?"
Her: "Ask you out? You're supposed to ask me out!"
Me: :Ok, how about Friday at 8?"

jaime90 · Jan 4, 2010, 12:08 PM

Ask her straight up. That way you won't be reading the signs which can give you mixed messages. The only way to know for sure without trying to figure it out on your own, is to ask. It could be scary, but it's better to ask and know, then to always be sitting around wondering.