I never done this before so here goes... I started to date this much older guy about 2 years ago. In the beginning he lost his wife and after a month I came over to help him cause his kids left him alone all the time. Well any way one thing led to another then we started dating. At first our relationship was great until a year went by and we moved to another place. Now it's like he's like a stranger to me, I left him twice before because of the way he changed and because of a argument that we had and inresult of it he threw a chair at the stove and now the bed room has a hole in it cause he puched the wall. It's l0ike he was like a angel and now he's the devil. I want out but he has threated to kill my dog, and my family, also his kids said that they would kill me or hurt me real bad if I left him again. So how do I get out with out getting hurt or if I get out to feel like to cage myself and my dog in the house all the time for a long time ? I can't move any where cause I have a really crappy job and the only place I can move to is my parents. I'm open to any suggestion or any one who wants to b*tch me out.

First thing first, CALL 911 AND GET OUT OF THERE. You should not be treated that way. Call the cops and get a restraining order and put him in jail. Try to record what he does on a video camera or just his voice on a voice recorder so you got proof. Take pictures of any bruises and such related to him, keep all medical records of when you had to go to the hospital because of him. Also this may seem silly but if you are stuck in the house with that creep and his family, I would suggest buying a gun or a knife and hide it somewhere so if things get really bad. BUT LEAVE HIM and I would suggest to not go to your parents if possible, maybe a friends? He would look for you their. If you were to try to escape, you need to do it quickly without messing up. Do some practices when he is at work.