There's no way to ever know if anything based on words alone is fact or fiction. Period. No way at all.
Any relationship based 100% on computer words is, unfortunately, a fairy-tale relationship, it has no basis for you believing ANYTHING is real from it, whether it be complimentary to you or not.
He says his eyes are blue. Are they?
He sends a picture and the face has blue eyes. So, I ask, are his eyes blue?
Then his friend emails you and says he has great blue eyes. Are they blue?
He says he likes you. Does he?
You see my point. Words are wonderful for communicating emotions, but are WAY useful for blowing steam, too. The internet is a great big word-game.
In Summary, believe NOTHING that you read, and only half of what you SEE. So, you're MSN chats with this guy should be kept in perspective. He could be a federal prisoner for all you know.
People you meet, get to know slowly, experience some things together... THOSE people you can "start" to believe, and only if ALL of their actions completely gibe with what they say. Those people are worth you wondering about.
This guy hasn't earned any of that mental energy yet, and you know it.
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