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    Dec 5, 2008, 08:07 AM
    How do I become comfortable talking to him!
    I've recently started talking to a guy. On the first date, I was very nervous because I'm not experienced in dating so many guys. He was asking me questions and I wasn't feeling comfortable to think about all of them and aswering because I was also driving and we got lost and the situations was so messed up. Now after a 3 weeks I feel that I'm still not comfortable talking to him about his personal stuff, his recent relations ship or about his hobbies and... I really want to break the circle and start talking to him and become more intimate with him! What should I do?
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    Dec 5, 2008, 10:16 AM

    If your not comfortable talking about every day stuff, then maybe your wasting your time, or are not ready to date this guy.

    3 weeks seems like enough time to get relaxed enough to hold a conversation, or else something is not right, and you should pay attention to what's going on, so you tell me what the problem is??

    Where do you go on dates, how often, and how old are you both?
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    Dec 5, 2008, 11:16 AM
    Well, I am kind of comfortable talking about everyday stuff, but I don't feel comfortable talking about for example his past, his family,. well I'm 25 and he is 21. We are classmates! At school. I don't know how to start the conversation in the middle of talking about daily stuff!
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    Dec 5, 2008, 11:51 AM
    This is the answer for talaniman!
    Well, I'm 25 and he is 21. I can handle the conversation about everyday stuff. I am not just comfortable talking about his past, his family, and... we have gone on date just 3 times. I have met him at school 2 3 times but very short. I don't know what to do to be more intimate in terms of communication.
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    Dec 5, 2008, 12:34 PM

    Keep talking, and listening, and paying attention. Have fun getting to know each other, and that will make you more relaxed in each others presence.

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