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sukanyajoyphonoi · Jun 6, 2010, 08:16 AM

Am falling for this guy so bad, one night me my friend him and his brother were hanging out, I told my friend I like him so much he said he likes me too but then my friend went on to him and he started paying her more attention he literally ditched me (at the same time I caught him staring at me from far). Anyway I got so jealous so I hooked up with his brother then he hooked up with my friend. The next night we hung out he hardly talked to me its like I didn't exist. And I can see that he was even starting to fall for her and she likes him too and that hurts a lot coming from a friend. Please help... what do I do? Should I tell him how I feel?

Homegirl 50 · Jun 6, 2010, 11:04 AM

No, you should leave him alone. Any boy who would treat you like that is not worth it.
You might want to loose the friend as well.
That is just not cool.

sukanyajoyphonoi · Jun 7, 2010, 05:01 AM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

No, you should leave him alone. Any boy who would treat you like that is not worth it.
You might want to loose the friend as well.
That is just not cool.

Hi. Thank you for the advice I think you are right :)

sukanyajoyphonoi · Jun 7, 2010, 06:31 AM

He said he likes me even wanted to be with me, I like too a lot. My friend knows that yet she was hitting on him all night, he could've backed off which he didn't and that pissed me off so I hooked up with his brother. I could see that it pissed him off so he slept with my friend. Now all of a sudden he having a relationship with her... I can see that he starting to like her a lot and she likes him too( all this happened overnight). Now he's acting like he never knew me but my feelings for him still remain strong. What can I do? Do I tell him?

redhed35 · Jun 7, 2010, 06:36 AM

He made his choice,he's with your friend now,there's nothing you can do but back off.

I'm afraid you can't make someone want you.

Homegirl 50 · Jun 7, 2010, 08:30 AM

What would be the point?
He is with your "friend" and I use that term lightly.
After all this back and forth, why is this guy even an issue?
Forget about him. He is not the only male on the planet. Don't sniff after another dog's bone. It's probably a bit chewed up anyway. Get your own.

sukanyajoyphonoi · Jun 8, 2010, 02:52 AM

OK I followed both of your advice and backed off I even deleted his number But he just texted me... why? Am so there's no one I can talk to about this.

Jake2008 · Jun 8, 2010, 07:34 AM

If he liked you the way you want him to, he would not be sleeping with your best friend, and you would not be using his brother to make him jealous.

Both of you need to grow up a little bit here.

You cannot dictate or expect any friend on who they choose as a partner. Some friends may have waited to see if anything worked out with the guy you really liked, before jumping his bones, but there is no rule that says anything is fair when there is an attraction to another.

You using his brother to make a point, is really heartless. When you start playing with other people's emotions in order to 'win' something, i.e. the guy now with your girlfriend, nobody wins.

Where is your dignity. The one you want is not available, and the one you are with, is not going to change that. I hope you stop using him.

You cannot make anybody be with you, no matter what plan you put into place. Let him go, and let his brother go.

That would be the right thing to do in my opinion.

Homegirl 50 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:20 AM

Originally Posted by sukanyajoyphonoi

ok i followed both of ur advice and backed off i even deleted his number But he just texted me...... why? Am so there's no one i can talk to about this.

Maybe your girl friend was busy!
This guy is bad news. Leave him alone. Don't answer text, phone calls, nothing!