Hi,

I meet this guy in a club. He was so interested in me and we danced/ talked the whole night. He walked me home (and took my hand) and we kissed good-night at my door (he wanted to come inside but I said wait with intimacy when I meet a new guy - he said he was positively impressed)

The next days we had contact by TXT, chat, and became friends on Facebook. He wanted to meet me again but then we both got the flu and were very sick for a week (in which time we had a lot of contact)

When the flu was over, we chatted one Saturday night and agreed to meet again on Tuesday. We didn´t have any contact on Sunday but on Monday when we chatted on FB it came out that he was going to ski with a friend on Tuesday after work. He had forgotten our date completely! He even didn´t remember what we were planning to do. But he said he will made it. He will first go skiing, which would take one hour, and then he will come to me. I was so pissed off that I said it was better to take it another day.

I was also shocked that he didn´t apologize, just said "I forgot it and double-booked me". Next day, Wednesday, he sent me a txt where he said that he was near my place and wanted to drop by to say hello. I said I was buisy. Then I deleted him from my FB. After 5 days he sendt me an email asking if he had missed his chance with me, and I answered him polite but clearly that I really liked him but that I was dissapointed and didn´t want to meet him anymore.

One month has passed since we met at the club, and yesterday he sent me a sweet txt just aking how I am and that he was sorry we never got to know each other.

Should I give him a 2nd chance?

I've once forgot a first date, nothing ever happened after that.

But seriously, and this is only my opinion. It's not that bad to actually delete him, and not hang out with him anymore.

However something's skittish, wait with intimacy for twice aslong as your used to.

Thanks for your answer Ken. I just want to ask you a question: why did you forget that first date? Was it because you were not that into this girl?

I just wonder how could a guy ever forget a first date...

I forgot to collect my children from school once!

Everyone makes mistakes,if you like him give him another chance.

No I was into her, but I was with my mate - and I forgot, she ended up eating alone without me, I felt really bad. But it was a mistake!

If it's something he does on a regualer basis, then it's a problem but a one time occurrence isent something you should worry yourself about :)

One time my mom forgot me in a store :) talk about short term memory loss..

What could you lose by giving him a second chance? At least he's asking for a second chance.

Give him another chance... its been a month of you ignoring him and he still hasn't given up on you...

Why not??

Give him a 2nd chance its okay he just forgot