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breezy12 · Sep 9, 2010, 11:45 AM

I have known this guy for many years. I ended up moving to a different state,and we lost connection. However,just a couple months ago we reconnected,and since then it was nonstop texting and talking back and forth. He would text me little things like "hey" or "what r u up to" and it would lead into conversations the whole day, that we would end up falling asleep texting,and picking up the next day. Even when I was sick,he contacted me throughout the whole thing checking up on me,and just being there. He made gestures,and little hints that he was interested,and so of course I fell for him. I never like to show emotions,or put myself out there,but for some reason, I let my guard down this time,and I told him how I feel. His response? That he just wasn't ready to be in a serious relationship right now until after college,but that yes, we could have something but only until he's ready to look for a girlfriend which won't be after he has a solid career. What does that mean? Im a psychology/biology double major, and the way I interpreted this was kind of like saying, "he just isnt that into me". So in this case should I just move on,or hold onto hope? Is there a chance he could be telling the truth?

pandead · Sep 9, 2010, 01:09 PM

Originally Posted by breezy12

the way I interpreted this was kinda of like saying, "he just isnt that into me". So in this case should I just move on,or hold onto hope? Is there a chance he could be telling the truth?

You answered your own question. Don't wait for someone who tells you "maybe in a few years." Good luck.

I wish · Sep 9, 2010, 02:55 PM

Only he knows what he really means by that. It could mean that he's just letting you down easy. Who knows what will happen in the future.

The question is, do you really want to sit around waiting for something that may never happen?

He already knows how you feel about him anyway, so if he ever wanted something serious, he can come find you. If you already moved on by then, then that's his lost.

breezy12 · Sep 9, 2010, 04:02 PM

And that's what I hate,that he already knows now how I feel,and I feel like an idiot for just putting myself out there.I just want to know what's wrong w/me or what did I do wrong?