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    sheenaOcen Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 12, 2009, 02:26 AM
    He calls but he is lying.
    So updating on my situation,
    Remember the jerk who broke my heart?let's call him "Jon".. I went rambling about Jon on here a few days ago.. now I don't know how to delete my posts... uurrgh
    Anyway Jon calls and acts like he just wants to know why we haven't talked. Totally acts oblivious to the fact that he has been deleted from all means of communication online.(we used to send each other lots of Facebook msgs).
    HISTORY:Right after I found out about his MSN stat.. the " I miss my gf",I tried to call him, when I couldn't get a hold of him, which I am glad I didn't byt, I texted him, called him names for playing me for a fool. And I told him to never contact me again.

    Apparently he never got it.I asked him about it, he goes."what msg"? And the confrontation begins.

    He tells me that the situation was a misunderstanding and I read too much into it. He says that all these mishaps are thanks to his friend who put that stuff on Jon's MSN and Facebook... that he is not with his ex and was never planning to use me as a rebound that I am too good for that .

    I don't believe his little fibs, I mean guys play mean jokes on each other.like I have had guy friends who put obscene messages on their friends MSN when the friend is not around, you know for laughs...
    But to say that This friend was the one who put " Jon's missing his gf" on MSN?. I am having a hard time believing that his buddy had anything to do with it. I mean guys don't usually meddle in eachothers affairs to that extent. And conveniently, this "friend" is the same guy that changes Jon's Facebook stat to "in a relationship".
    As I hear him explaining about this I get the urge to say "I am not stupid, you are terrible at lying" but I control myself and just say aha.ever noticed people who lie justify the situation WAY too much in order to convince you?

    So after all this horsecrap,I let him know regardless of "who did it"
    I am still hurt and that I would never want to be anyone's rebound.he said I was never a rebound and complimented me like its going to work now.. pffftthh. He apologized again and Then he tried to figure out if I am seeing anyone now. I said yes I am..

    End of Story... for now
    I won't be fooled again. I stayed calm,let him know how I feLT and let him apologize eventho I don't buy it. I don't think I am too harsh, I told my friends about this and they seem to agree. Do you?

    Thanks for listening.
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    redhed35 Posts: 4,221, Reputation: 1910
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    Oct 12, 2009, 02:31 AM

    I agree with you.

    You know him best and the situation as it stands.

    Start no contact,move on with your life,learn a lesson from this.
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    I wish Posts: 5,296, Reputation: 2030
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    Oct 12, 2009, 07:19 AM

    Same boyfriend?
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...me-402784.html
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...es-403100.html

    Simple formula:

    No trust = No relationship
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    sheenaOcen Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 12, 2009, 08:11 AM

    Thanks, I don't trust him and I learned my lesson for sure

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