Hey guys,

There is this guy that I like, he is someone that I know a while but we don't meet that often. Well anyway, he has asked me out a few times, but I told him that he was too young for me as there is a 7 year age gap... he is in his late twenties I'm in my mid thirties. So I meet him recently and we got on great, we ended up together (which is talking and kissing) I text him the next day, "thanks for the lift home and some other stuff" I also said "it was great meeting you again" he answered me on the other question and said at the end of the text "talk later" what does this meaning?

I like him and have got over the age thing but I don't know how to tell him I like him as we don't meet that often... I think he won't ask me out again since I have turned him down so often... help what do I do now, to let him know I want more?? :(

It means he will be in touch. I usually tell my friends that and told my girlfriend(fiance now) that when I had to go.

You don't see him often, so don't push, as if he is as interested in more, as you are, he will contact you again. If he doesn't, take it for what it is, he ain't that into you, so no, don't push it.

So do you think I should wait for a text from him again... is this a good thing him saying "talk later" that maybe he is interested... I didn't text him back after he saying this at the end of the text... which was yesterday. How long do guys mean before texting again?

I've never been one to wait around for anything so I wouldn't wait around, if he texts/calls he calls if not, your life isn't going to end. I promise.

Some guys follow that 3 day rule, me personally I do things my own way at my own pace.

He'll call when he's ready to call.

Text him whenever you want, but just don't expect too much from him. Some might say it's pushing him, but it's also letting him know that you are interested too. But you don't want to seem desperate, so you have to find a balance.

You can't force someone to feel the same way about you. If he's interested in you, he will let you know eventually.

I'm not either, I just didn't know if he was fobing me off just to finish the conversation by saying (Talk later). I just want him to know I like him and want to give us a chance...
He was the one that initiate thing when I meet him out..!

Hi everyone,

I have been on a 2 dates with this guy and got on really well, we text on and off to each other, I text him asking him did he enjoy us meeting up, as I wasn't sure how he felt about me.

He text back saying "he had a lovely time and lets just take our time and see where it goes"

What does he mean by saying his?

It sounds like he wants to take it slow. But you don't need to read too much into what he said. Just focus on getting to know each other better, enjoy the time that you spend together and see where it goes. Let things flow naturally.

This is why I recommend not using texting as a form of communication in new relationships. Heh. I know a few couples who had huge problems because one wasn't sure exactly what the other meant in a text.

As far as how he feels about you, friend, I would recommend not pushing him for an answer on his feelings for you at this stage. In my experience, a relationship works better when the man is the pursuer of that relationship. When the woman starts taking on the role of pursuer, she often becomes frustrated, and the man becomes frustrated as well. My advice to you is to wait for him to bring his feelings to you. You don't need to press him. He may not be the one, and if he isn't, you certainly don't want to try to mold him into "the one". You'd be missing out on a huge blessing down the road. And if he is the one, it'll be because he has chosen to love you and pursue you of his own accord without any convincing.

So take it slow. Be patient. In relationships, going too fast can be much more destructive than waiting. It's not a popular theory, especially among us gals, but it holds true nonetheless.

Blessings!
Hammy

Hi Everyone,

There is this guy that I meet and he was been texting me and rang me. He text me recently and he asked how I was and I asked him the same, he is from a different area to me (3 hrs away) he said in the reply that "he was taking it easy and that he was going to have to spead his wings soon and get a bit of excitement back in his life... what does this mean..?

It means, get out of the nest, try new things, meet new people, jump out of the comfort zone, broaden his horizons, take on a few challenges.

It's a metaphor. A baby bird grows up in a nest and doesn't fly yet. But once the baby bird is able to spread its wings, the bird can start flying. When the bird learns to fly, the bird can go anywhere.

He's ready to face the world. New challenges. New environment. Out of the comfort zone.

Hi Everyone,

There is this guy that I meet and he was been texting me and rang me. He text me recently and he asked how I was and I asked him the same, he is from a different area to me (3 hrs away) he said in the reply that "he was taking it easy and that he was going to have to spead his wings soon and get a bit of excitement back in his life....what does this mean.....??

Would it be that he is hinting that he wanted to come to see me. As his first text to me was was "long time no see"...

All answers very much appreciated... :)

Only he knows what he means, if I were you, I'd ask him.

Since the text was sort of neutral conversation, I don't think I can make a judgement on that one. Time will tell.

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Why don't you simple ask him how he feels instead of guessing what he's thinking?

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There is this guy that I meet about 1 1/2 ago and we ended up dancing one night and I liked him at the time but there was one problem his friend liked me too and gave out to him for dancing with me, anyway I hadn't seen him sense then.

Recently, I meet him in a club and he tipped me and said hi, he said "it was great meeting you again" and we were doing a bit of slagging and he told me he had seen me recently and asked me if I went out in the club we were in much. He waited for me and we walked out together and he meet his friends outside I said bye and headed home as they had a taxi to get as they order it to collect them before they go out.

Then last weekend, I got a shock when he was out again as he wouldn't usually go out to this club, he was walking by me and he stopped and chatted and told me "i looked very well" and was saying thing to me to see if I was drunk the weekend before and he said "i remember meeting you and walking out with you" the weekend before, later in the night he came back over to me and we were laughting and messing, I went for my jacket and he was with his friend so I walked out and meet him and we were slagging and joking again, he was trying to close his jacket but couldn't so I did it for him, and he gave me a kiss on the cheek and afterward bought me food..!

Can anyone tell me if he likes me or what is going on with him saying all these things to me and the way he acts around me?

I can only say he is being nice to you in a gentlemanly way.

Sounds like he was being friendly, but without any additional actions I can't say for sure if he's just a friendly fellow or a fellow who's interested in more.