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    packer2007 Posts: 23, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 19, 2007, 06:31 PM
    First date do I or don't I?
    I will be seeing this guy for the first time after 2 weeks of emails and calls. I don't want to do anything more than a possible kiss. Should I just be up front with that or wait and see how the date goes before saying anything to him?
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    Oct 20, 2007, 01:10 PM
    Wait and see how the date goes. Then, if he suggests going to a motel, or starts making out with you hardcore, you can bring it up. Tell him that you like him, but need more time to get to know him before you can make a decision about sex. If you met him online, meet him in a public place and take a cell phone with you. Also, ask a friend to call you at a certain time to make sure you are OK. Hope this helps.
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    Oct 21, 2007, 08:03 AM
    Just don't say anything about it... do subtle hints. For instance if he puts his hand on your leg smile, take his hand, and move it over to place it on his own leg (any guy who doesn't get what that means is brain dead! ) If he brings up a motel or going to your house use "sorry I'm tired" or "I'd rather go to my place". Now if he leans in for a kiss when dropping you off... your lips touch... and then he starts to make out... do what I do.. SLAP THAT!! Ask him what he thinks he's doing and get on his about that cause I'll bet you will have been giving subtle hints all night to sexually leave you alone!

    I agree with peggy though on calling you and I think you should do what I always did on first dates... carry a weapon! I always have a knife on me just in case! So if you can get a knife or pepper spray especially since this guy is someone you met online! It doesn't matter how much you think you know this guy the first meet up with an online person is dangerous so bring protection should he try anything really bad (rape).
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    Oct 21, 2007, 09:08 AM
    If he tries anything on the first date that's a bad sign, a kiss or hug yea but more than that's a little much.
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