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    niecy_04 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 17, 2007, 02:28 PM
    Fiancé problems
    I am 21 years old and getting married next year, early this year in April I found out I was pregnant. I was happy and then confused my fiancé was very happy. I went to talking to friends and family and they thought I should have an abortion the way my life is right now, so stupidly I did and my fiancé was going to break up with me but he didn't. Ever since April I have been sad and regretful of my descion and he reminds me of it all the time by saying little things and just making me remember it. He knows I don't like it but he does it anyway I don't know what to do?
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    Sep 19, 2007, 02:43 PM
    Well, you've had the abortion, and you can never take that back. If you feel strongly about it, ask your boyfriend if he wants to try to get pregnant again. If your life really is going THAT badly then think it through or just wait it out a couple of year. Maybe you could sit your boyfriend down and just say " i know i screwed up, please stop making me feel bad about it, i already feel worse enough"
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    Sep 19, 2007, 04:06 PM
    I'm sorry I can't be very compassionate in this situation. The baby was as much his as yours and now it's gone. I will say though he made the choice to stay with you anyway, so he needs to let it go or he needs to go.
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