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    shanny_2006 Posts: 61, Reputation: 0
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    Dec 12, 2006, 02:17 PM
    Ex's birthday
    Today is ma ex boyfriend's birthday but I want to wish him a happy birthday. The thing is I'm not sure if I should, since we aren't really talking anymore and secondly I don't want to look like an idiot by wishing him happy birthday. I think he will still think that I'm not truly over him. Do u think it'll do any harm if I wished him happy birthday?
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    Julie25 Posts: 37, Reputation: 5
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    Dec 12, 2006, 02:27 PM
    That depends on if you still talk once in a while or not. I don't think it will cause
    Any harm regardless, it is just a nice gesture. But, it might be a little ironic if you haven't spoken to one another in a long time. The choice is yours considering only you know the situation between the two of you. Good luck with your decision.
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    SINGLE4 Posts: 189, Reputation: 33
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    Dec 12, 2006, 02:42 PM
    I would say... NO! Stick with the "no contact" rule!
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    simpl2me Posts: 16, Reputation: 3
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    Dec 18, 2006, 09:59 AM
    It would all depend on the time table that you guys were together if you were together a long time then I would say say happy birthday but if it was just a short relationship then don't worry about it... but the final choice is yours and just saying happy birthday is just a good nature thing that society don't have around anymore much.
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    Dec 18, 2006, 10:41 AM
    If you have not spoken to this boyfriend for some time and you are moving on with your own life now ! I would say not too and stick to the none contact rule or you may find yourself opening up a can of worms, but the choice deep down is yours.

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