My ex boyfriend broke up with me, I want him back.
Asked Aug 4, 2009, 11:47 AM
My boyfriend and I were dating for 11 months before he dumped me. He was everything to me, he was my life. In the beginning of our relationship, everything was perfect and after a few months I lost my virginity to him because I felt like he was deeply in love with me. Even though I'm only seventeen, he went on vacation with me and my mom. And I went on vacation with his parents 2 weeks before he broke up with me. He at many times, was an a**hole to me, but I didn't care I forgave everything. The day he broke up with me I was at the beach, he called me every 30 minutes making sure I was with no guys. He had always been very over protective and jealous and controlling. I found it to be a sense of love he had for me, afraid to lose me.Later on that day when we met up he was being shady. Not paying attention to me at all. He kissed me all of a sudden like crazy, and 5 seconds later, in front of all his friends he told me he wanted to be single. I ran after him begging for him to take me back but he said to go home and leave him alone pushing me away. He left me crying alone in the middle of the street while he went home with his friends. The next morning he told me he wanted to be friends because I was his best friend. I ignored him the whole day he tried calling, emailing etc. I was too furious to answer him. 3 days later we hadn't talked at all, and I decided I needed to go to his house to know how he really felt. He told me that his decision was set and stone, he told me he didn't love me anymore, didn't miss me or need me. He asked me why I came there and that I shouldn't have. Then, he told me I would once thank him for it. Since that day we have not spoken and its been more than 2 weeks. I know he's with another girl already because I've seen pictures of them at his house. I understand people lose feelings but don't they show some kind of signs. He still wanted to see me everyday the last few days and weeks of the relationship. I honestly am dying inside and don't have any clue what to do. I NEED him back.