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justB · Jul 30, 2012, 03:15 AM

We've beeen dating for two years, it was lovely as we started from best friends.
But now, I just can't find myself attracted to him, there's no passion there anymore. The little things he does irritate me, and I can't seem to help it.
We just spent two weeks apart as I went on holiay, I didn't miss him, and I hardly contacted him, I spent more time thinking of the waiter hitting on me.
My problem is, I do care for him still, I know he's a lovely person, and I know he really loves me, and I don't want to lose a best friend, but I just feel that there is more to love than this, I don't know what to do :/
Thanks for any advice in advance x

Gamed · Jul 30, 2012, 03:52 AM

The little things that irritate you? Well sorry to break the news but no ones perfect your lucky to find someone that the only problem big enough worth mentioning was ''the little things that irritate you.''

I mean here's this guy who loves you ,and your bored so you don't contact him and all you think about is some waiter.

He probably sees ''more to love'' than you do because he makes things work.

You don't seem good enough for him you should probably just leave.

justB · Jul 30, 2012, 03:56 AM

I didn't mean it like that, I meant it more as, even the little things, asin things that shouldn't bother me do

I know I'm probably not, that's another of my issues.

Gamed · Jul 30, 2012, 04:12 AM

Ugh OK ill try to help.
So 2 years ago their was this girl who was hot as hot can be. So she had a boyfriend who was like her toy he would do anything for her (She was stuck up)

Fast forward she says things to other people like ''im not attracted to him'' and ''Lol he's ugly.'' he stays with her because he's in love

Fast forward to 9 months ago I get a call that I'm favored to get a spot on team usa for boxing (ended up not trying out). So after hearing that she leaves him for me 2 months later I leave her.

Why did I tell you that story? Because after I left her she went back to him and realized that she had a great guy the entire time. 1 month ago they got engaged.

What you need is to take time off tell him you want to take a break for a month or 2 maybe have him read this post so he can see why your only doing it for your relationship.
Now you know what to do?

justB · Jul 30, 2012, 04:17 AM

Now you know what to do?[/QUOTE]

Sort of,thanks