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    happydays Posts: 3, Reputation: 4
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    Oct 26, 2006, 07:22 PM
    I crushed his ego..
    I have been seeing this guy who I really like and we had sex for the 2nd time last night... I really have feelings developing but I think the sex part is too fast for me. So as he was leaving I told him that I didn't want to do the sex part anymore.. Maybe I should have waited awhile before telling him that and not 40 min after the sex part.( cause now that I think about it... he may think that he doesn't satisfy me )
    Eitherway, he won't return my phone calls... and I actually saw him in the mall tonight and I know he saw me, but walked right past me. I could tell he was uncomfortable because he walked a little faster.. Eitherway, we are to new for me to go off the deep end at him for the way he's acting. I really miss his friendship..
    Should I just let it go.. and forget about him..
    My friend suggested that I give him a little time to cool off since this just happened Tuesday night.. and that his ego has been crushed a little??

    What to do?
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    phillysteakandcheese Posts: 973, Reputation: 356
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    Oct 26, 2006, 09:11 PM
    I'm sorry if this is hard to take, but... If I were in his shoes, I would never want to see you again either. :mad:

    You were right on when you said "...I should have waited awhile ... and not 40 min after..."

    You planted the idea that sex with him was less than great. You hurt his feelings in a very personal way and no matter what you say now, he's always going to have that idea tucked away in his head.

    Give him time... he may eventually speak to you again, but I would seriously doubt there's a possibility of you getting back together with him in a meaningful way.
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    Krs Posts: 2,906, Reputation: 320
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    Oct 27, 2006, 01:13 AM
    Well the truth is, if were not ready for sex then you shouldn't have had sex twice with him, bring his hopes up then tell him NO MORE sex :cool:

    Why did u have sex twice then turn round and tell him you don't want sex?

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