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    Jun 21, 2012, 06:05 PM
    Coworkers dating
    I was seeing this girl that I liked from work for a while. She was new and we started talking and the next thing you know we are together for a while. About two months pass and she says she wants to try and just be friends for now and that she doesn't think she wants to get into an official relationship just yet. I was OK with it at first but after about a week she starts talking to another one of our coworkers a lot, one that neither she or I really liked at first. Well she eventually starts to get close to him and right now they are seeing each other. Of course I feel really bad about it all, I am jealous and really hurt at the same time. It would not be that bad if one of them was not working at the same place as I was but that's not the case. I have to see them every so often together around work and I don't know what to do about it. It upsets me to see them both and it hurts to think about it. I just don't know what to do and how to get over it. Please if anyone has any advice or has gone through what I am going through let me know.
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    Jun 21, 2012, 06:08 PM
    There is no formula for that. It takes time. Just stay busy, avoid them when possible.
    This is one reason dating with in the work place is just sticky.

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