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Boyfriend Troubles
OK, so I have a boyfriend... all good, yeah? No! I have a massive crush on a boy in my English class :L we went out before and now I really fancy him again. But my boyfriend really loves me but I'm growing apart from him... I don't want to break up with him because it'll hurt his feelings and it'll hurt his feelings even more if I go out with my crush. What shall I do? Help.
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You're a very nice girl because you consider other people's feelings first before your own. How much do you like your crush? Try to really determine what you want and who you want. You want to be with your crush because you're developing feelings for him and you want to stay with your boyfriend so that he won't get hurt and you want the feeling of being loved. You both want them but try harder on deciding who to pick.
When you're absolutely sure, then think of ways to tell your current boyfriend how much you appreciate him and how much you care for him to give him the truth that he deserves. Just because you'll tell the truth, it doesn't mean you'll hurt the person. There are other people who are more grateful for the truth and do not feel hurt. You will never know so don't assume. Focus on yourself. Please yourself first before pleasing others. |
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If you have feelings for another guy, even if they are very faint, you need to tell your boyfriend even if it will hurt his feelings. I know you consider other peoples feelings, but if you don't want to be with your boyfriend, you also have to consider your own feelings. Decide who you want to be with and then act upon it. It may hurt someone's feelings, but at least you are being honest with them and yourself.
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