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    oreo630 Posts: 68, Reputation: 2
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    #1

    Nov 4, 2008, 09:41 PM
    Am I being used?
    OK so I like a guy , and he says he likes me.
    He calls me beautiful and gorgeous and
    Every time we see each other he can't keep
    His eyes off me.
    But he also likes another girl,
    He keeps denying he likes her and tells me
    The only person he likes is me.
    But deep down I KNOW he likes her.
    So why does he keep leading me on?
    Is he messing with me?
    Am I his back up?
    Help me ! :confused:
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    ISneezeFunny Posts: 4,175, Reputation: 821
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    Nov 4, 2008, 09:56 PM

    ... well, I have no idea if he likes her or you. The thing is, what does it matter if he likes her? He apparently spends time with you and tells you positive things about yourself... and seeing as you two aren't in a formal relationship, to be honest (I know this sounds brutal), anything and everything is fair game to him.

    Yes, it's bad that he may lead the both of you on, but technically, he's not doing anything "wrong." Now, if you like this guy, just enjoy spending time with him; don't get your hopes up, but just enjoy the time spent together. If you continue to accuse him of liking another girl, question him, get mad at him, etc. it will only hurt your relationship.
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    Fiona2003 Posts: 45, Reputation: 11
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    Nov 6, 2008, 02:38 PM

    Guys always deny looking... they may even deny their ex's. Bottom line is they are doing it because they don't want to hurt you.

    The more you pry, the less attractive you are to him. You have to be the "whole package" - pretty AND on his side. So what if he looks, if he brings you home to meet mom and not her, you know you're the only one in his heart.

    And if he does introduce you to his mom, make nice with her right away. Guys love that most!
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    asking Posts: 2,673, Reputation: 660
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    Nov 6, 2008, 02:42 PM

    He thinks both of you are beautiful and gorgeous. (And you probably both are.)
    Not complicated. He sounds a bit superficial to me.

    What do you think of him? Is he intelligent, likely to succeed in life, kind and patient? Likely to be faithful?

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