Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    Jodiefae's Avatar
    Jodiefae Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Jun 20, 2011, 06:59 AM
    My 1yr boyfriend does not want me to move in, but I am there 6nights out of the 7?
    I thought why spend $1300 on an apt. that I am never there and I would be able to split his rent and help him out, right, well he was not real keen on that idea. He said I don't want to hear you harp at me if I want to sit on the couch or play a video game. Therefore he doesn't think it's a good time, but he gets mad if I want to go to my house+ he never ever comes over?
    What are a few opinions I really do like him a lot and don't think I'm really a harper I don't know where he is coming from.

    Maybe I should start thinking he isn't the one?

    What are your thoughts my age 33 he 36 times are ticking, you know...
    I wish's Avatar
    I wish Posts: 5,296, Reputation: 2030
    Family & People Expert
    		  
    #2

    Jun 20, 2011, 11:32 AM
    Saving money is very logical, but the problem is that the relationship in its current state is not strong enough to take the next time.

    How long have you been together for?
    Jodiefae's Avatar
    Jodiefae Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #3

    Jun 20, 2011, 01:56 PM
    Comment on I wish's post
    1 year and 2 months
    Synnen's Avatar
    Synnen Posts: 7,927, Reputation: 2443
    Expert
    		  
    #4

    Jun 20, 2011, 02:26 PM

    He's not ready to move in, and acts childish when YOU do YOUR own thing.

    I wouldn't move in with him. I'd SERIOUSLY wait on that step.

    And I'd stop spending as much time at his place as you do. If he wants to hang out, you can either go out or he can come to your place.
    I wish's Avatar
    I wish Posts: 5,296, Reputation: 2030
    Family & People Expert
    		  
    #5

    Jun 20, 2011, 09:07 PM

    Seems like you have different priorities in life.

    Either he's not ready to settle down with anyone, so it's nothing personal.

    Or he doesn't think the relationship is strong enough to take things to the next level.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

How can I tell if I should move on or not from an Ex boyfriend? [ 8 Answers ]

OK. So my ex and I were together for almost an year. I broke up with him because I started having feelings for someone else and I did not want to cheat on him. I started dating the other guy, then three months later my ex started to see someone. I got really jealous and broke it off with my current...

Why can't I move on from my ex boyfriend? [ 3 Answers ]

Hi guys, Ugh you know when you feel so alone, that you just have to do something to try and make yourself feel better? Or understand? That's what I am doing here. Im 19 and my first love was a guy that I met coming right out of high school. We spent 2 months together before I had to go away to...

Ex-boyfriend who wouldn't let me move on [ 9 Answers ]

I broke up with my ex boyfriend 9 months ago. During these 9 months we have been keeping in touch and been trying to get back together but we always ended in arguments. I always decided to stop talking to him but after some time, I contacted him again and then he pissed me off and I stopped talking...

Should I move out with my boyfriend [ 12 Answers ]

Ok, so I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months and I know I really love him and I know he really loves me. We have been through a hell of a lot. Long story short, I'm 17 and my parents don't want me to date until I'm out of college. So when they found out about him, they flipped and put a...

Boyfriend wants me to move out [ 8 Answers ]

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and we have been through A lot together. After about a year of dating he would tell me that he wanted to marry me but I told him I wasn't sure. Well about a month ago I encouraged him to take on a management position with the company he works for. He...

View more questions Search