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    red grasshopper12 Posts: 238, Reputation: 3
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    Jun 20, 2008, 03:04 PM
    A boy or shall I say man
    There is this boy or shall I say man he is like 40 and I'm 26. He won't stop obsessing over me. He calls my grandma's phone because that is where I'm living. Well he has a daughter.
    He keeps asking me to the movies but I told him I have to ask my mom but then he keeps asking me have I asked her I tell him not yet. He just keeps asking me! I know I'm not into him, and I know my mom would say no. But I just wish this guy just get the hint by the way I'm talking to him.
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    Jun 20, 2008, 03:16 PM
    Why not try something totally off the wall?

    Mr.? I have no interest in going to the movies, or anywhere else with you, and I would like you to stop calling me please.

    It just might work?
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    Jun 20, 2008, 03:18 PM
    You are 26 why doo you have to ask your mom.

    Tell him you are not intrested period. Tell him to leave you alone
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    Jun 20, 2008, 03:23 PM
    I have told him in emails
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    Jun 20, 2008, 03:33 PM
    Tell this guy you're not interested, and run don't walk away.

    Tell him to stop calling and if he emails, don't responsd.

    At 26 you should be able to make your own decisions, not have to ask your mom, though.
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    Jun 20, 2008, 03:36 PM
    Tell him to his face, or better yet, to his ear, next time he calls.

    STOP sending him ANY emails, and do not reply to his, period.

    I would even recommend changing to a new email address.
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    #7

    Jun 20, 2008, 03:44 PM
    It is only on myspace.
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    Jun 20, 2008, 03:46 PM
    I don't anymore respond to any of his messages on myspace.
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    #9

    Jun 20, 2008, 03:50 PM
    Ignore him, he will eventually get the message.
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    Jun 20, 2008, 03:51 PM
    My grandma says the next time he calls she going to say that I don't live here anymore. She thinks this guy is weird also. I told her that I wanted to remove the guy from myspace but she said don't do that, because she is friends with the guy's sister. Even though I'm still willing to remove him from my lists.
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    Jun 20, 2008, 03:53 PM
    Who cares if someone is friend's with this creep's sister. How did he get your number in the first place?

    BLOCK him on myspace. HE IS A CREEP.

    And why is a 40 year old man trying to pick up girls on myspace? He's obviously retarded.
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    Jun 20, 2008, 07:23 PM
    As I said my grandma is friends with his sister.
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    Jun 20, 2008, 07:24 PM
    Really, how old are you? 26?

    **EDIT***

    Most of your posts are in the Teens section, so please, tell the truth, how old are you?
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    Jun 20, 2008, 07:30 PM
    Block his emails...
    Call block his phone number...
    If he shows up on your doorstep, warn him if he doesn't leave, you'll call the cops...
    If he sends a letter, mark it 'refused' and stick it back in the mailbox...

    He should get the hint and quit bothering you--not that he has a lot of avenues if you completely block him out of your life... let me ask you this though.. is there anything on your Myspace page that he is after in particular? I mean, it seems strange for a man whom you've never dated and rarely spoken to to come after you so strongly, doesn't it?
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    Jun 20, 2008, 07:31 PM
    Plus he has a child. And I blocked him from my myspace friends list.
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    #16

    Jun 20, 2008, 07:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9
    Really, how old are you? 26?

    **EDIT***

    Most of your posts are in the Teens section, so please, tell the truth, how old are you?
    It is the truth!
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    #17

    Jun 20, 2008, 07:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by danielnoahsmommy
    you are 26 why doo you have to ask your mom.

    tell him you are not intrested period. tell him to leave you alone
    I guess it is just a habit.
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    Jun 20, 2008, 07:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9
    Really, how old are you? 26?

    **EDIT***

    Most of your posts are in the Teens section, so please, tell the truth, how old are you?
    The only thing I have posted that is in the Teen section is my posts I made about The story I am writing.
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    #19

    Jun 22, 2008, 06:21 AM
    Just curious, why do you have to ask your mum's permission?
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    Jul 1, 2008, 02:01 PM
    It is just a habit!
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