I have a 12 year old son and an 11 year old daughter. It came to light yesterday that they have been touching each other... playing 'games', but I think it is more than this. She has been touching his penis, and he has been 'fingering her'.
I am in total shock, and last night sat them down to find out what was going on. (it was brought to my attention from a comment my daughter had made at school). They both admitted it in a kind of nave way. I don't thing there was anything sinister in what they had done but it is unnacceptable.And I have made this very clear to them both. However I am left feeling hurt,angry,disappointed,blaming myself etc... I think I need to get some kind of help especially for my son with his feelings. I appreciate they are young,and their bodies are changing,hormones etc. But I don't know where to go with this. What to do. Has anyone else been in this situation. Can anyone give me some advise. I feel so sick.And scared.