[danielle51]

I want to help my boyfriend find his child all he knows it he was born in feb of 04 and it's a boy... the girls family didn't want him apart of it they didn't want him at the hospital he regrets siging those adoption papers and he doesn't keep in contact with the mother he won't contact her he feels what's done is done but he would give anything to see a picture know his name etc.. He was only 18 when it happened... I just want to know where and how to tell him with out him knowing I am

[eljay1103]

Why don't you try and hire an investigator?? Do you know where about the mother lives ? You know like city and state... has he ever talked about how she felt about him being in the boys life (not what her parents wanted, what she wanted)? You have to consider those kinds of things just in case you can get intouch with her yourself... If she lives near by a good way would be trying to figure out who her friends are... Does he know who has custidy of the boy?

[Fr_Chuck]

I am sorry, if he knows where the mother is, he needs to ask her, or hire an attorney to ask her.

But if the adoption was legal, he may not have any rights to know at this point unless it was a open adoption.