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fredasiah · Nov 3, 2011, 07:23 PM

What if you are major in love with him, and he is middle, and you think he is cheating on you? What is an 11 year old to do? The only reason I think that because girls are always hitting him, and touching him, and I saw it with my own two eyes this morning. I said really, he said really. What he was really doing was standing there like nothing happened. Should I break up with him, or what is an eleven year old to do?

Fr_Chuck · Nov 3, 2011, 07:39 PM

A 11 year old has no business "dating" an 15 year old

ScottGem · Nov 4, 2011, 03:44 AM

An 11 yr old has no business "dating" period, let alone a 15 yr old.

Are your parents aware that you have a 15 yr old boyfriend (or even think that you do)?

There are no laws governing dating, all the laws refer to sexual activity (you are underage). But you are under the control of your parents and if they say no, it would be illegal for him to pursue it.

DaniCalifornia · Nov 4, 2011, 11:54 AM

Whatever happened to Barbies, and toy cars? I agree with the others, I didn't even have my first KISS until I was 16, out of choice too.

Concentrate on school and friends. You can worry about boys later!

X Dani

DM333 · Nov 7, 2011, 11:13 PM

It's not illegal but it's frowned upon. A general formula for "is it acceptable to date..." scenerios is...

*Your Age* + 11, divided by 2.

So in your case, 11+11 = 22 / 2 = 11

ScottGem · Nov 8, 2011, 04:03 AM

Just curious but where did you get this formula from?

Aurora_Bell · Nov 8, 2011, 09:40 AM

Scott, it was on a movie. Seems to be the golden rule these days.

ScottGem · Nov 8, 2011, 10:24 AM

So lets see how this works
14=12.5
15=13
16=13.5
17=14
18=14.5

Nope doesn't work for me. The older one gets the greater disparity this formula allows. Not very golden, more like dross.

Aurora_Bell · Nov 8, 2011, 10:40 AM

Yea, apparently it's now okay for 18 year olds to date 14 year olds.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...m=dating%20age

suggestionsir · Nov 8, 2011, 10:42 AM

Legal... illegal has nothing to do with your concern
Its nothing illegal to be with one who you "love"
... to be with one who you "love"

As you said all girls are regularly hitting on him... that's OK its common if your guy is really good.
But the point is that is he also leting others to hit on him.

If he is doing so it might be possible that he is not interested in you.
So what ever you do you should be sure you are doing it right and its good for you