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unknown624 · Sep 19, 2009, 01:53 PM

Last night, my boyfriend and I made out. He fingered me, and he went pretty far in. This morning, I was kind of sore down there. As well, my lower abdomen is hurting. I went to the washroom this morning, and there was a little bit of blood, but it was mostly clear. Should I see a doctor?

artlady · Sep 19, 2009, 02:24 PM

He may have bruised your cervix.If the pain continues or gets worse,it might be wise to see a doctor.

unknown624 · Sep 19, 2009, 02:45 PM

I know for a fact that I am not pregnant. I have never had sex in my life. I'm eighteen years old. As my boyfriend and I were making out last night, as usual he fingered me. This morning, I had pain in my lower stomach just above my pubic hair (but inside me), and I suddenly felt really hot and dizzy and I had to lie down. When I was lying down, I laid on my side. That hurt a little bit, but the pain went away. :( What is going on here?

J_9 · Sep 19, 2009, 03:20 PM

No need to see a doctor just yet. Tell him to be more gentle.

JudyKayTee · Sep 19, 2009, 03:24 PM

It could be a cyst. It could be nothing serious. You need to see a Physician.

Please post each question once and please post the same "facts" each time.

If he is "fingering" you (as usual) to the point where you bleed BOTH of you need to talk - sex should not cause you pain or cause you to bleed on a regular basis.

unknown624 · Sep 19, 2009, 03:33 PM

This is the first time it's hurt. I'm thinking he just went deeper than usual.

artlady · Sep 19, 2009, 03:42 PM

Originally Posted by unknown624

This is the first time it's hurt. I'm thinking he just went deeper than usual.

Deep is not the problem,the vagina is adaptable for deep.
Your cervix,at the top of your vagina is sensitive and he may have even scraped it,causing some blood and discomfort.

unknown624 · Sep 19, 2009, 08:00 PM

I bled a little bit more later today, when I went to the washroom again. It might be my period, because I had really bad stomach pains. I only bleed when I go to the bathroom though.

ohsohappy · Sep 19, 2009, 08:46 PM

I really hope his hands were clean, if they weren't then your're inviting all sorts of bacteria in there that shouldn't be.

Anyway, Is this around the same time you normally get your period?

unknown624 · Sep 20, 2009, 12:37 AM

He had just used the washroom before we started, so his hands were clean.

I usually get it in the middle or at the end of the month.

artlady · Sep 20, 2009, 12:53 AM

Originally Posted by unknown624

He had just used the washroom before we started, so his hands were clean.

I usually get it in the middle or at the end of the month.

I think you are too young to be sexually active if you don't understand what your own body is all about.
Stop having fingering sessions until you get educated about your body.
Know yourself and respect yourself!

shazamataz · Sep 20, 2009, 05:34 AM

I agree with Artlady, it's best to hold off on sexual activity until you understand it better.

However one thing to consider... how long are his nails?
They don't have to be LONG, but just long enough to scratch you and cause you to bleed.

ohsohappy · Sep 20, 2009, 09:06 AM

Originally Posted by unknown624

He had just used the washroom before we started, so his hands were clean.

I usually get it in the middle or at the end of the month.

Well as long as you're ppositive that he washed his hands. A lot of guys won't because they don't care. So just make sure if there's a next time. (And I agree with the above statement about the fingernails, that sucks)

I would suggest that you consider putting your periods on the calendar. When they start and end, every month. This could help you get to know your cycle better. Mark it in your personal planner or something.

unknown624 · Sep 20, 2009, 02:11 PM

Thanks so much guys =)