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1st Lady · Apr 1, 2009, 08:24 PM

I had sex for the first time w/ my boyfriend and the condom broke! He said he didn't but I'm worried because of precum and I heard you can get pregnant. Off that. And the next day I thot I had my period because it was due but I only bled for 2 days my normal cycle is 6days and now I'm spotting kind of brown blood with red. I'm worried that I could have a chance that I could be pregnant?? HELP!

rachelcuryy08 · Apr 1, 2009, 08:33 PM

Well I think if you are pregnant you will whole period that first month then the following it will be gone.( I think so)but have you tried having a pregnant test the first respons is a good 1 in your situration.try just calming down and takingthe test hope I help you

1st Lady · Apr 1, 2009, 08:38 PM

And my stomach has been having pains I don't know if that period thing is right and I have to wait for pregnancy test.. my stomach and back just have been hurting. Symptoms?

ibrown · Apr 1, 2009, 08:41 PM

Yea this happened to one of my friends.You just might be pregnant you just have to wait and take a pregnancy test.

rachelcuryy08 · Apr 1, 2009, 08:45 PM

So have you tried going to the doctor?I think u might be pregnant try talking to your boyfriend seeing if you can go to the doc. Offices

1st Lady · Apr 1, 2009, 08:55 PM

Well I think id have to wait before going to see the doctor because it happined on Friday so I don't know I'm just really worried about this.

Alty · Apr 1, 2009, 08:58 PM

Okay, chances are you aren't pregnant, but it is possible.

Everyone has had an off period, it happens. Also, you wouldn't know the day after you had sex. You're obviously stressed out about this, that can also change your period.

So, relax, deep breath, try not to worry until you have something to worry about. Wait until your next period is due, if you're late (at least one week) then take a home pregnancy test. Until then, don't stress about it, nothing you can do now anyway.

For the future, realize that just a condom (although better than nothing) is not the best form of birth control. Doubling up is a good idea if you plan on being sexually active in the future. Get on the pill, plus a condom. Realize this though, even with both forms of birth control, pregnancy is always a possibility.

There's no such thing as safe sex, there is safer sex, but that's it. The facts are, if you are having sex, you could get pregnant, if you aren't ready for that possibility, then maybe you should wait.

Good luck.

rachelcuryy08 · Apr 1, 2009, 08:59 PM

I think you should just relax I think you just a little scared calm down and take it day by day

Alty · Apr 1, 2009, 09:01 PM

Originally Posted by rachelcuryy08

so have you tried going to the doctor?I think u might be pregant try talking to your boyfriend seeing if you can go to the doc. offices

Why do you think she's pregnant? Even a doctor couldn't tell her that at this point. It's been 5 days.

Alty · Apr 1, 2009, 09:04 PM

Please don't take advice from kids that have no idea how pregnancy even occurs. All the answers above are so innacurate.

Really, chances are you aren't pregnant, but you have to wait until your next period. No doctor in the world could tell you 5 days after you had sex.

Do any of you even know how pregnancy happens, how long it takes for the egg to implant in the uterus?

This is not a good forum to guess on, accuracy is important.

rachelcuryy08 · Apr 1, 2009, 09:07 PM

O told her I don't know if she was I'm not a doctor but I can say that she neet to calm down maybe she just nerves

1st Lady · Apr 1, 2009, 09:08 PM

Ahh all these different answers at once. I'm so confused and impatient at this point. Ughhh. I guess all I can do is wait.. but my chances are slim?

rachelcuryy08 · Apr 1, 2009, 09:09 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

Why do you think she's pregnant? Even a doctor couldn't tell her that at this point. It's been 5 days.

I don't think she is pregnant I do thin she just a little scared.

Alty · Apr 1, 2009, 09:17 PM

Originally Posted by 1st Lady

ahh all these different answers at once. im so confused and impatient at this point. ughhh. i guess all i can do is wait..but my chances are slim?

The fact is, even though it was off, you did have a period.

Slim, maybe, you claim he didn't ejaculate so that's a positive on your side. Impossible? No, but it's way too early to tell and worrying about it will not help.

Sadly you have to play the waiting game, it's not fun, but it's part of being sexually active. If your period is late next month, that's when you test. Right now, it's way to early for anyone to tell you, even a doctor, heck, even a scientist.

In other words, even though it's hard, try not to worry too much about it. If you aren't pregnant then look into starting the birth control pill and use a condom on top of that, it will just make you a bit safer. Like I said before though, anytime to you have sex, pregnancy is a possibility.

I have a friend with one ovary, Polysistic ovarian disease, on the pill and used a condom and still got pregnant. So yes, sex=babies, and contraception just makes you a bit safer, not immune.

There's really not much more I can say. Wait and see, hope for the best, but chances are you'll be just fine.

Good luck.

Cristiansmomma · Apr 1, 2009, 09:39 PM

You need to wait. You can not until this time if you are pregnant or not. Even if a period came a day after having sex. It's still consider a period. However,you will need to wait until your next expected period,or you may take a home digital pregnancy test 5 days before your expected period date.

If you are still having issues,then the best thing I can say is see a dr.