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    May 27, 2011, 10:50 AM
    I think my cat is mad at me... or just doesn't like me anymore.
    I found a kitten on my doorstep a year ago. My wife and I became attached immediately. We took her in took her to the vet and made her a part of the household. She was always affectionate and loved to sit on laps, play in the sink when we were getting ready for work, slept with us... she took turns going back and for between us all night. We gave her space when she wanted it, played when she wanted, fed her well... treated her like a little queen. Now very suddenly She has quit being affectionate, quit sitting in our laps, will not even stay on the bed if we put her on it. In the morning she wants to go straight outside and stays until late in the evening. She comes in , eats, and goes upstairs and lays inside the curtains of the windows in my sons bedroom. She tends to shy away from us if we try to go to her. What did we do wrong and what can we do now.
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    May 27, 2011, 10:59 AM

    Has she been spayed?
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    May 27, 2011, 11:09 AM
    Yes... when she was 6 months
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    May 27, 2011, 11:21 AM

    Well, I know from living with cats all my life that they go through phases and lifestyle changes. The chair that they always slept in suddenly is not good enough or the food that they have gobbled up for months is now *patooey*.

    Maybe there is something interesting outside that particular window -- a bird's nest or a family of ducks. I'm 99.9% it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her focus changing. Give her time and be patient. (Our cats love their window seats and spend a good part of the day there until it's nap time.)
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    Jul 19, 2011, 04:53 AM

    Is she goes that a sign that she want babies and if she keep laying and that's a sighn she a pregmant

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