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    Donnalouiseo Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 7, 2016, 05:31 PM
    I'm so lost
    It's nineteen weeks since my boyfriend died at home can't function
    He was my life
    I'm so lost
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    Oct 7, 2016, 05:54 PM
    Sorry for your loss. Would you care to share your situation and ages with us?
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    Oct 7, 2016, 06:56 PM
    Time to seek some grief therapy counseling ti help you through it. Talk to your doctor about recommending one.
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    Oct 7, 2016, 07:16 PM
    It is still early, and it is hard. But stay involved in life, do things, live the life they would have wanted. I have been widowed twice. And I still talk to my first wife (I go outside and just talk to her) tell her about the boys, life and so on.

    But I remember that they would have also wanted me to be happy
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    Oct 7, 2016, 07:32 PM
    I'm so very sorry for your loss, and I'm even more sorry that mere words won't help you through this. Sadly this is a pain that takes time to heal, and it's never completely healed. I can promise you that with each passing day, the pain will be a bit less, and soon you'll be able to smile again, and move forward.

    Grief counseling is a very good idea. It helped me a lot when I lost my parents. There are also many groups that meet up sometimes specific to your exact situation, losing a boyfriend. Look around online near you to find grief counselors and grief groups that you can attend. Talking about it with others that have experienced the same thing can really help.

    I wish you the best of luck, and again, I'm so very sorry you're going through this. Don't give up hope, it will get better.

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