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    ohhoneyhooke Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 3, 2008, 04:00 PM
    Did my mother love me because when she died she didn't do any contact to me but.
    I don't know if my mother love because she never look at me when she was dying she made contacts with my sisters and my brother but not me so I keep wondering why she didn't say anything to me I'm really heart broken because my mother died last year and I still keep thinking why she never said anything
    Please can anyone tell me what happened ?
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    Dec 3, 2008, 08:24 PM
    Her body was dying over which had no control. She would loved to have held each one of you one more time. Place no blame on her. She did nothing wrong by dying.
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    Dec 5, 2008, 04:58 PM

    Often when people are dying they are SO sick that they really have no words to say. They can hurt so emotionally and physically that they don't want to talk. Talk becomes meaningless. Sometimes all we can do is remember the good memories, know YOU loved her and cling to the good memories.
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    Dec 8, 2008, 08:38 AM
    Hi sweetie of course your mother loved you and was more than likely thinking of you more than the others as she realised how you were hurting and wanted to try to save you any more pain... sometimes when mothers have a special child that is a little more closer they stand back as this helps them to leave you too.. in time you will realise this and in time too you will be close as can be... even when we die love continues and survives over and above everything so take heart and draw closer still to your siblings with love :)
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    Jan 5, 2009, 06:32 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ohhoneyhooke View Post
    i dont know if my mother love because she never look at me when she was dying she made contacts with my sisters and my brother but not me so i keep wondering why she dint say anything to me im really heart broken because my mother died last year and i still keep thinking why she never said anything
    please can anyone tell me what happened ?
    I have 3 children and I love each of them none more than the other, unconditionally. Maybe your mother just wanted to spend quiet time with you or maybe she was sedated or maybe she was tired. But as a mother I can attest that she loved you no less or more than your sibilings.

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