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    Dec 17, 2006, 09:38 PM
    Am I wrong?
    Its been two months since the love of my life passed away. And I was wondering am I wrong for not going to his resting site to see him yet? Im not strong enough, I wanted to go see him for christmas but Im not ready too because I know I'm still very sad.People keep saying that I need to go but what they fail to realize is that Im still grieving. Believe me when I become more stronger I will visit him every chance I get but right now I'm not strong enough. If anyone could give me some advice I will truly appreciate it. DJ85
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    Dec 17, 2006, 10:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by dj85
    Its been two months since the love of my life passed away. And I was wondering am I wrong for not going to his resting site to see him yet? Im not strong enough, I wanted to go see him for christmas but Im not ready too because I know im still very sad.People keep saying that I need to go but what they fail to realize is that Im still grieving. Believe me when I become more stronger I will visit him every chance I get but right now im not strong enough. If anyone could give me some advice I will truly appreciate it. DJ85
    People should never pressure one another, people should not pressure you, it's entirely up to you. Furthermore even if you never ever go, it's OK. They say it's just a body buried at the resting site, the spirit is still with you, and will always live on with you and inside of you. This is just my opinion.
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    Dec 17, 2006, 10:34 PM
    No your not wrong. IT is up to you when you are ready to visit. This is your personal decision and knowing always that whether you visit or not that your heart will always have the spirit of your love within you. Always. Knowing this should make it easier. Like the above answer, no pressure.

    Joe

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