aryn1984
May 25, 2007, 09:25 AM
I posted a question earlier about my current situation and got really good answers in response, so I hope you guys can help me again.
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He alleged butthead I mentioned in my first question is taking all of this out of control and making it even more difficult. He is still in contact with my friend and her husband. He goes over there almost every night and talks about our situation. I had mentioned in my first question that he had been to rehab and has failed to make even one payment to them and that was over a year ago. He had asked is father to help but his father told me, on more than one occasion, and him that he just couldn't because he didn't have that kind of money. It was $1800.00 that was needed to pay the rehab center. He refused.
My friend just told me this morning that this guy has been talking to his father. His father told him he would do anything to help him take this child away from me. In fact, he says he knows how because he has friends who have done it. Supposedly it takes about $20,000.00 to do this. Why in the hell can he help him take a child away from a loving, fit mother but he can't help him get off drugs?? What do I do?? What are the frist steps that need to be taken here? Do I disappear or go to the SRS? How do I prove that he is NOT a fit father and that he is only trying to hurt me? I am so freaked out and scared. He won't answer any of my phone calls. Up until today I wasn't even sure if we were broke up or what. I spoke to him or saw him in 3 days and it has turned into this. HELP!! Any advice is welcome.
T
He alleged butthead I mentioned in my first question is taking all of this out of control and making it even more difficult. He is still in contact with my friend and her husband. He goes over there almost every night and talks about our situation. I had mentioned in my first question that he had been to rehab and has failed to make even one payment to them and that was over a year ago. He had asked is father to help but his father told me, on more than one occasion, and him that he just couldn't because he didn't have that kind of money. It was $1800.00 that was needed to pay the rehab center. He refused.
My friend just told me this morning that this guy has been talking to his father. His father told him he would do anything to help him take this child away from me. In fact, he says he knows how because he has friends who have done it. Supposedly it takes about $20,000.00 to do this. Why in the hell can he help him take a child away from a loving, fit mother but he can't help him get off drugs?? What do I do?? What are the frist steps that need to be taken here? Do I disappear or go to the SRS? How do I prove that he is NOT a fit father and that he is only trying to hurt me? I am so freaked out and scared. He won't answer any of my phone calls. Up until today I wasn't even sure if we were broke up or what. I spoke to him or saw him in 3 days and it has turned into this. HELP!! Any advice is welcome.