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russ_564
May 3, 2005, 03:47 AM
Me and my girlfriend split up on Friday I`m now homeless and sleeping in my car,she is also pregnant and has reacently lost her father due too a tragic accident she says that she has fallen out of love with me but I need too get her back asap I`m so lonely it`s unbelivable can anyone tell me how too get her back before it`s 2 late :(

Wildcat21
May 3, 2005, 02:23 PM
What did you do Russ?

Are you working? I hope you are.

She's having your child and she kicked YOU OUT??

Sounds like some one needs to do some MASSIVE changes in his life.

YOU HAVE TO CHANGE NOW!!

Wake up. A pregnant woman doesn't kick a man to the streets unless he screwed up massiely.

Dreamer
May 23, 2005, 01:51 AM
I know it has been a while since you posted that, but hopefully I can give some valuable advice.

First of all, I am not going to make accusations about what happened in this relationship. I wasn't there, and so it is not fair of me to say who was at fault. In my opinion and experience, it takes two to tango. It takes two to make it work and two to make it end.

If I were you, and if you haven't already, I would just go back and try to speak with her. Apologize for anything you might have done wrong, and just try to compromise with what to do next. This baby needs a loving mother and father with a solid relationship. I never lose hope on a relationship, so if you have it in your heart, try to make this one work, OK? Your post made it sound as though you have a genuine interest to have this woman back in your life.

Just take it one day at a time, sit down and talk maturely, and try to work it all out. If she is willing to listen, she might find it in her heart to open up to you. I am hoping that she does! Good luck with this relationship and with your future son/daughter.

If you need more advice, feel free to ask. I'll be here at some point.

JackieBlueGirl
May 24, 2005, 05:39 PM
Your sleeping the in the car how do you have internet access?
A friends comp maybe?

She's overwhelmed but something had to happen for her to kick you out you didn't say if there was a fight?

Argument?


I wish u the very best.

There are people that care... I do and I don't even know you but thinking of you sleeping in a car makes me shudder.