Hello again I'm currently separated with my wife married for 8 years and one day see says sheloves me but she's not in love with me and says she is 80% sure see will stay with me and the kids sake but all she says is I need space and I'm going to counciling .she will not and now says she will never get back with me than a week or two she tells me intell I know 100% sure what I want I can not be with anyone the counciler said to do no contact give her space I try and she calls me about are kids and want to fight all the time I do not want to fight I want tosave my marrige and I need more ideas or maybe new steps or just give up and hope that she will come back I do not want to play games and the counciler that I went to is not returning my calls sound like a flake want wife back and family the thing I did can all be corrected in time my wife is very stuborn ,what are those thing ,job,money,intamacy,sex,clean house and never went on date in over 7 yrs I always wanted to she did not very deppreesed I want to show her a great life any ideas to reconnect with wife thank you Rc

So sorry to hear how bad things have got. The only piece of advice I have is to work at being friends and just getting along for a while and see where that takes you.

I hard a hard time reading your post. I wasn't sure where the sentences begin and ended. But anyway. Sounds like you were going to counseling but are no longer. You need to find a new counselor. There are many organizations or churches that have group therapy available that could help you through this difficult time. If she's not willing to give herself to the marriage 100% and seek help then I don't think its going to work out. You need to prepare yourself for that reality at the very least for your children's sake.