sweetgirl_3
Jan 21, 2015, 06:26 AM
My boyfriend and I have been in relationship for 1 and half year. He is 22 this year and I'm 21 and studying whereas he starts working this year. He told me that I changed his life a lot and opened his eyes to look his, his family and my future. But then, when he started working, almost everyday he works, like 6am-6.30pm and 7pm-12am (his part time job). He said he wants to earn more. He promised me to spend time but then day by day, I’m not receiving his calls and texts. I asked him to at least call me or send me a text, but then only at night before he sleeps he will send me good night, or sometimes he will call. I will cry and ask him to spend time with me as I was sick for few weeks and he even never call or text to ask my condition. He asked me to understand his situation that he is working for him and his family and he must work for his family too because his dad had just retired. He is not that well to do family, so he must work to make me happy. That is his answer when every time I ask to spend time with me, but then, I feel so hurt and alone when he does all this.
I know he is doing a right thing but I just want to spend time with my lover, and go for a date like other couples too. He told me his life will change and he can earn and spend money that he earned after 3 years, so he asked me to wait 3 years. I fell hurt when he has time for his friends, and go out with his family. We just meet like 3 times till now only, and every time when I asked him to meet me, he will reply busy. Sometimes I will fight with him because its like nothing between us (no calls, no text nothing from him).
HELP ME, WHAT SHOULD I DO?
I know he is doing a right thing but I just want to spend time with my lover, and go for a date like other couples too. He told me his life will change and he can earn and spend money that he earned after 3 years, so he asked me to wait 3 years. I fell hurt when he has time for his friends, and go out with his family. We just meet like 3 times till now only, and every time when I asked him to meet me, he will reply busy. Sometimes I will fight with him because its like nothing between us (no calls, no text nothing from him).
HELP ME, WHAT SHOULD I DO?