oliveoil89
Dec 11, 2013, 06:55 PM
When I first met my boyfriend, he was a relaxed, nice guy. He was the best. Took me to the coolest places and we hit it off immediately. When I started dating him, he was great. Then I got an interview to be a tutor at a university. He got an anxiety attack. Then, he would insist on driving me to work. So I thought it would be a great way to save gas. He would want to know whatever happened at work and with the athletes.
Once we got through that, nothing much arose until our 6th month anniversary when he gave me an anxiety attack by starring at my phone while he drove as I wrote on Facebook. I lost it because he would always do that. He would ask me daily if creepies texted me. When we would get in arguments about his jealousy or something else, he would not let me leave. For instance, if I needed space and told him I wanted to go home. He would not leave. He would keep my car door open or take my phone. HE would follow me to the bathroom and would not leave me alone even though I told him to please give me space (this was after he once again was checking my phone because we had not talked in a while.) He would notice every thing that happened on my phone, accused me of cheating, interrogated me, accused me of hiding things. He would tell me a friend was not good and could get me in bad situations (if I mentioned hanging out with her.) He does not like my cousin or uncle for things that they have done in their life and their lifestyle. Has tried to convince me that visiting them would result in bad situations. He has hit things in anger, like his car, chair, or cushions on my couch, or my front door while I was holding it. Just recently, we were arguing and I was crying. He then yelled at me with all his rage and it scared me.
There is so much more to write... what's wrong with him? :(
Once we got through that, nothing much arose until our 6th month anniversary when he gave me an anxiety attack by starring at my phone while he drove as I wrote on Facebook. I lost it because he would always do that. He would ask me daily if creepies texted me. When we would get in arguments about his jealousy or something else, he would not let me leave. For instance, if I needed space and told him I wanted to go home. He would not leave. He would keep my car door open or take my phone. HE would follow me to the bathroom and would not leave me alone even though I told him to please give me space (this was after he once again was checking my phone because we had not talked in a while.) He would notice every thing that happened on my phone, accused me of cheating, interrogated me, accused me of hiding things. He would tell me a friend was not good and could get me in bad situations (if I mentioned hanging out with her.) He does not like my cousin or uncle for things that they have done in their life and their lifestyle. Has tried to convince me that visiting them would result in bad situations. He has hit things in anger, like his car, chair, or cushions on my couch, or my front door while I was holding it. Just recently, we were arguing and I was crying. He then yelled at me with all his rage and it scared me.
There is so much more to write... what's wrong with him? :(