rafiki101
Jul 20, 2013, 08:36 PM
All right So here is the scoop. My friend and her boyfriend witnessed a fight between my fiancé and I. Everybody has their issues so don't respond with don't be with him if he has laid his hands on you, because we both have shoved one another before and it doesn't bother me because we have worked through those issues already and that is besides the point. So anyway, I'm taking a walk with my friend yesterday and she tells me that A LONG TIME AGO my fiancé said things about our sex life behind my back at his job and says that if we ever break up he's going to go find the first piece of *** he can get.
I don't know if I believe this because it's coming from my friend and her boyfriend which by the way was in a mental hospital for a year so really... where is this coming from. They never hang out. Why would he pop off with saying that if he knew it would get back to me in the first place. Not only that she said that when we first got together (over two years ago) that he said if he wasn't with me he would go for someone like her. Why would she wait over two years to tell me all this. There is more but those are the two things that stuck out to me the most and ONE of them is lying to me and I have to let go of one of them. She has lied to me before, exaggerated the truth and he has lied to me once before as well. He has generally always been pretty respectful of me and I honestly can't see him saying these things.
We have spent everyday together since we met just about so I really don't know what to believe at this point. I have decided to put them in a room together so I can judge by there facial expressions and movements which one is lying. If one does not want to take part in this I feel as though I will know which one of them is lying. Does anybody have any tips on what I should do here. I love these two people both dearly and I don't want to lose the wrong person over dishonesty but I am going to have to say my goodbyes to one of them because I can't handle feeling betrayed and I demand to be respected. I wish I could get into more detail but unfortunately nobody would want to read all of that or this for that matter, but please if you have any ideas help me.
I don't know if I believe this because it's coming from my friend and her boyfriend which by the way was in a mental hospital for a year so really... where is this coming from. They never hang out. Why would he pop off with saying that if he knew it would get back to me in the first place. Not only that she said that when we first got together (over two years ago) that he said if he wasn't with me he would go for someone like her. Why would she wait over two years to tell me all this. There is more but those are the two things that stuck out to me the most and ONE of them is lying to me and I have to let go of one of them. She has lied to me before, exaggerated the truth and he has lied to me once before as well. He has generally always been pretty respectful of me and I honestly can't see him saying these things.
We have spent everyday together since we met just about so I really don't know what to believe at this point. I have decided to put them in a room together so I can judge by there facial expressions and movements which one is lying. If one does not want to take part in this I feel as though I will know which one of them is lying. Does anybody have any tips on what I should do here. I love these two people both dearly and I don't want to lose the wrong person over dishonesty but I am going to have to say my goodbyes to one of them because I can't handle feeling betrayed and I demand to be respected. I wish I could get into more detail but unfortunately nobody would want to read all of that or this for that matter, but please if you have any ideas help me.