defjam34
Mar 29, 2013, 05:43 PM
We've been dating for two years and have always had a few problems. He's a really busy person and is always gone. We're only 16 so I see him at lunch sometimes in school but he is constantly going away for basketball. (His schedule has always been an issue between us) and he's not really one to compromise. Don't get me wrong, I don't want to hold him back, but I feel like his time management is lacking. Last week, we were going to go on a date alone finally since he got his license, but he invited his brother to the movies with us. And then my boyfriend showed up to the movie in his pajama bottoms like it wasn't a big deal to be on a date with me. And I know we see things differently, but I mean come on? Who would show up on a date in pj's? Let alone invite their younger brother. I asked him about the pg.'s and he said "I didn't think that after two years I still had to impress you." and that crushed me.
I am starting to question if I really want to date him anymore. He is one of those really smart people with absolutely no common sense, and he only understands his own feelings. He assumes that if something he does doesn't bother him, then it wouldn't bother someone else. I try to talk to him about it nicely but he always takes it as a personal attack. We've been fighting a lot over the stupidest things and somehow everything is my fault these days. If you asked him about all this, he would just say I was over reacting and that none of this is true. It's because he doesn't see it like I do. I try to explain but he won't hear it. I really don't know what to do anymore.
I have tried to sit him down and have many serious talks with him but his ability to listen and understand is terrible. The worst part is I'm so used to having him around that I don't really know if I want to break up, or if I don't want to break up. And If I didn't want to break up, I don't know if it would be because I actually love him, or if I just don't want to be single. I am confused about us and myself right now. Any advice? I know it was long.
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I am starting to question if I really want to date him anymore. He is one of those really smart people with absolutely no common sense, and he only understands his own feelings. He assumes that if something he does doesn't bother him, then it wouldn't bother someone else. I try to talk to him about it nicely but he always takes it as a personal attack. We've been fighting a lot over the stupidest things and somehow everything is my fault these days. If you asked him about all this, he would just say I was over reacting and that none of this is true. It's because he doesn't see it like I do. I try to explain but he won't hear it. I really don't know what to do anymore.
I have tried to sit him down and have many serious talks with him but his ability to listen and understand is terrible. The worst part is I'm so used to having him around that I don't really know if I want to break up, or if I don't want to break up. And If I didn't want to break up, I don't know if it would be because I actually love him, or if I just don't want to be single. I am confused about us and myself right now. Any advice? I know it was long.
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