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lisa1471
Jan 4, 2013, 04:25 PM
Just curious saw my ex he kept making eye contact in fact even caught him staring.The only thing is he looks on his own in front of others but he won't call.I'm so confused.Can someone help me?

Alty
Jan 4, 2013, 04:27 PM
He was staring at you? Why would that mean he's going to call? I'm confused?

He was probably looking at you because he knows you, and you're his ex, and it's awkward to see your ex.

If you want to talk to him, call him, but don't expect him to call you just because he looked at you.

Good luck.

Wait a minute.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marriage/found-text-husband-his-ex-701219.html

You're married. Why are you trying to get back together with your ex?

lisa1471
Jan 4, 2013, 04:34 PM
He was staring at you? Why would that mean he's going to call? I'm confused?

He was probably looking at you because he knows you, and you're his ex, and it's awkward to see your ex.

If you want to talk to him, call him, but don't expect him to call you just because he looked at you.

Good luck.

I didn't say that it indicate he had to call.No people don't just keep making eye contact the entire time.He sees me all the time so its not awkward.I was doing something when I looked up he had been looking at me.Even with others around.I said I was confused on calling because if it had anything to do with him trying hook up its not like if he calls me.


Wait a minute.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marriage/found-text-husband-his-ex-701219.html

You're married. Why are you trying to get back together with your ex?

I didn't say I was trying get back with my ex I asked why would he be starring and making eye contact but he do that and its not like he calls.Never said above I even wanted him.#2Im no longer married.

Alty
Jan 4, 2013, 04:37 PM
I didn't say that it indicate he had to call.No people don't just keep making eye contact the entire time.He sees me all the time so its not awkward.I was doing something when I looked up he had been looking at me.Even with others around.I said I was confused on calling because if it had anything to do with him trying hook up its not like if he calls me.

Why are you still so obsessed with your ex, and why are you spending any time thinking about him at all? You're married, both you and your husband are cheaters, I read your other threads. I thought you were trying to have a healthy marriage.

Thinking about every little thing your ex does, is not the way to move on and save your marriage.

You have to decide what you want. Do you want your husband, or do you want your ex lover? If it's your husband, then stop doing what you're doing. You're giving way way way too much thought about your ex and the things he does. It's not good.

lisa1471
Jan 4, 2013, 04:39 PM
Why are you still so obsessed with your ex, and why are you spending any time thinking about him at all? You're married, both you and your husband are cheaters, I read your other threads. I thought you were trying to have a healthy marriage.

Thinking about every little thing your ex does, is not the way to move on and save your marriage.

You have to decide what you want. Do you want your husband, or do you want your ex lover? If it's your husband, then stop doing what you're doing. You're giving way way way too much thought about your ex and the things he does. It's not good.

First of all slow down.When was last time you saw ne on her le?If you read my post my ex husband now I can say was cheater how healthy was that?#2Im not thinking about ex I asked because its something that just happened.

I ask one question about an ex I never mentionand I'm obsessed. Lol Do you read before responding?

teacherjenn4
Jan 4, 2013, 04:45 PM
Originally Posted by lisa1471
I ask one question about an ex I never mentionand I'm obsessed. Lol Do you read before responding?

She might have had trouble understanding your posts. I am.

When was last time you saw ne on her le.?

Alty
Jan 4, 2013, 04:47 PM
I ask one question about an ex I never mentionand I'm obsessed. Lol Do you read before responding?

Yes, I do.

Have you read all your questions on this site? Most of them are asinine questions about holding hands during sex and what it means, about telling a man that your vagina is his and whether it will scare him off, and other ridiculous things that I really never thought I'd read. I can't even begin to describe the level of immaturity and lack of intelligence that would be needed in order for someone to ask the questions you constantly ask.

But, we come here and answer, even though your questions really aren't questions that even need an answer.

As for you being obsessed, yes, I think you are. Otherwise why are you constantly thinking about and posting about your ex, and worrying about every little thing he does?

I'd worry more about your marriage and less about your exes if I were you.


When was last time you saw ne on her le. ?????

It doesn't get any better than that TJ. In fact, it gets worse. :(

teacherjenn4
Jan 4, 2013, 04:52 PM
It doesn't get any better than that TJ. In fact, it gets worse. :(

Can you please help me decipher that? I'm still stumped!

Alty
Jan 4, 2013, 04:55 PM
First of all slow down.When was last time you saw ne on her le?If you read my post my ex husband now I can say was cheater how healthy was that?#2Im not thinking about ex I asked because its something that just happened.

The last time, before this post, that you were on here, was November 20, 2012. That's less than 2 months ago. At that time you implied that you and your husband were still together. Of course, we can only go by implication since all of your posts are next to impossible to decode.

Yes, your husband (when did he become an ex? That's always been a major problem with your threads, no one can tell if you're married, divorced, trying to save your marriage, etc. etc. again due to your writing skills or lack thereof), is a cheater, as are you. In fact, if I remember correctly, you cheated first. Healthy to admit that you're both cheaters? I think it would be more healthy to get help with your obvious issues.

Yes, you are thinking about this ex. You're thinking about him so much that you started a thread about him! I don't post a question about every event that happens in my life, unless it means something to me, and it's something I'm thinking about. So why would you post unless you're thinking about him? You want to know why he was looking at you, and why he hasn't called you, if I decoded your question properly.


Can you please help me decipher that? I'm still stumped!


When was last time you saw ne on her le.?

I'm guessing that it means "when was the last time you saw me on here?"

But I could be wrong. I have to admit, I'm not very good at decoding gibberish.

teacherjenn4
Jan 4, 2013, 04:57 PM
The last time, before this post, that you were on here, was November 20, 2012. That's less than 2 months ago. At that time you implied that you and your husband were still together. Of course, we can only go by implication since all of your posts are next to impossible to decode.

Yes, your husband (when did he become an ex? That's always been a major problem with your threads, no one can tell if you're married, divorced, trying to save your marriage, etc. etc., again due to your writing skills or lack thereof), is a cheater, as are you. In fact, if I remember correctly, you cheated first. Healthy to admit that you're both cheaters? I think it would be more healthy to get help with your obvious issues.

Yes, you are thinking about this ex. You're thinking about him so much that you started a thread about him! I don't post a question about every event that happens in my life, unless it means something to me, and it's something I'm thinking about. So why would you post unless you're thinking about him? You want to know why he was looking at you, and why he hasn't called you, if I decoded your question properly.
Where does the new baby mentioned a few months back come into the picture?

Wondergirl
Jan 4, 2013, 04:59 PM
When was last time you saw ne on her le. ?????
I'll venture a guess and say, "When was the last time you saw me on here?" ***ADDED Alty beat me to the draw.

teacherjenn4
Jan 4, 2013, 05:02 PM
I'll venture a guess and say, "When was the last time you saw me on here?" ***ADDED Alty beat me to the draw.

Definitely, both of you deserve a prize! I was reading through the threads... divorced, sex buddy, married and cheating husband, new baby, single, ex, I'm exhausted!

Alty
Jan 4, 2013, 05:02 PM
Where does the new baby mentioned a few months back come into the picture?

It's probably an ex too. ;)

That's the major problem with this poster. She posts, and writes very poorly, she doesn't seem to realize that we read other posts she made, to get the bigger picture, and if you read all of her posts, nothing makes sense. She's either married, or not, she cheated, her husband cheated, there's a baby, they were working it out but she's still having sex with her lover, then she's obsessed by everything either her husband or lover does during sex and what it means, now she's suddenly divorced etc. etc. It's enough to give you a headache.

Who really knows what the truth is? At this point I'm not even sure Lisa knows.

lisa1471
Jan 4, 2013, 05:02 PM
What on earth ate you talking about?I asked one question.Ex boyfriend no ex husband.Read title.Only asked one question.. duh

teacherjenn4
Jan 4, 2013, 05:05 PM
What on earth ate you talking about?I asked one question.Ex boyfriend no ex husband.Read title.Only asked one question ..duh

We're reading your old posts. We can see them, you know.

Alty
Jan 4, 2013, 05:07 PM
What on earth ate you talking about?I asked one question.Ex boyfriend no ex husband.Read title.Only asked one question ..duh

You've only asked one question? Okay then, who posted all the other questions under your username?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/will-woman-scare-man-away-during-sex-if-717401.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/love-making-just-sex-715783.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marriage/found-text-husband-his-ex-701219.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-money-services/buying-first-home-712260.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marriage/home-wrecker-670114.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/their-benefit-hurt-woman-653739.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/how-far-will-go-before-she-finds-out-651936.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/how-should-handle-situation-when-were-co-workers-650777.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/do-men-like-attention-650370.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/children/being-too-petty-649352.html

And 12 more. I don't feel like posting the rest.

Most of the questions are about your husbands cheating, your cheating, your lover, questions about sex that are ridiculous, etc. etc.

In other words, this latest question is just another in a long line of asinine questions you've already asked.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/when-sexual-partner-stares-you-600970.html

Here. Here's another one of your questions that deals with a man staring at you.

teacherjenn4
Jan 4, 2013, 05:10 PM
Where's the baby from April, 2012?

Wondergirl
Jan 4, 2013, 05:11 PM
Where's the baby from April, 2012?
I adopted it.

Alty
Jan 4, 2013, 05:12 PM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marriage/will-make-them-back-off-posting-pictures-650006.html

This isn't the first time we've asked for the truth, but we never get an answer.

Where is your baby? When did you divorce your husband? Are you still with your lover?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/children/being-too-petty-649352.html

Well at least the baby is intact.


Everyone want to see our baby.Intact

I would hope they keep it intact. ;)

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/do-men-like-attention-650370.html

Another thread about men staring.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/their-benefit-hurt-woman-653739.html

This isn't the first time she's been asked to write clearly, and to stop telling different stories.

Let's face it, this poster is a troll. It's amazing that she hasn't been banned by now.

Lisa, it's time to come clean, tell the truth.

Were you ever married, or did you make it all up? Do you have a baby, or is that made up too? Was there ever an affair, or is he your imagination too?

If I had to guess, based on your writing skills (I use that term loosely), your questions, I'd guess you're a bored teenager that has nothing better to do, and isn't smart enough to realize that we can read everything she's ever posted on this site.

So tell the truth, because no one is buying it, we never did.

Enigma1999
Jan 4, 2013, 06:17 PM
Wait, I am very confused.

Lisa, what is your question?

Was he staring at you?

Also, how old are you?

teacherjenn4
Jan 4, 2013, 06:42 PM
Also, how old are you?

She said she was 40 in a post.

Alty
Jan 4, 2013, 06:44 PM
Wait, I am very confused.

Lisa, what is your question?

Was he staring at you?

He's apparently one of many that stare at her and compel her to come here and ask about it.

Sigh.

teacherjenn4
Jan 4, 2013, 06:45 PM
He's apparently one of many that stare at her and compel her to come here and ask about it.

Sigh.
Remember when her boyfriend's wife stared at her?

Alty
Jan 4, 2013, 06:57 PM
Remember when her boyfriend's wife stared at her?

I guess they all stare. Maybe she has two noses or something.

Enigma1999
Jan 4, 2013, 07:09 PM
She said she was 40 in a post.

Oh wow! I never would have thought...

I thought she was in her early twenties based off all of her threads.

One thing I have noticed about her, is that she posts and then never really returns to that thread. Then a month goes by and she will open up a new thread.

Lisa, you seem to think about men quite a bit. Do you have children? Or a job? Or a hobby?

If people stare, then who cares.

Alty
Jan 4, 2013, 07:12 PM
Oh wow! I never would have thought...

I thought she was in her early twenties based off of all of her threads.

One thing I have noticed about her, is that she posts and then never really returns to that thread. Then a month goes by and she will open up a new thread.

Lisa, you seem to think about men quite a bit. Do you have children? Or a job? Or a hobby?

If people stare, then who cares.

She claims to have a baby, just had it recently with her husband who she now claims is no longer her husband, even though he was in November.

She posts, we call out the discrepancies, and she never returns. I guess she's hoping that we'll forget about all the past posts that make no sense. Sadly, she's one of those posters that I see post, even if it's been months, and I instantly recognize her and remember all her fables.

In other words, she can keep hoping we'll forget, but we won't, and even if we did, we usually check past posts when a question doesn't make a lot of sense. When hers are checked the whole fantasy life comes out. I'd doubt very much that half of what she says is true.